The Peril of Impatience: Lessons from Saul's Leadership

The focal point of this discourse revolves around the profound implications of Saul's failure to exercise patience as delineated in 1 Samuel chapter 13. In this chapter, we observe Saul grappling with the necessity of waiting for the prophet Samuel to arrive before offering sacrifices to God. His impatience, stemming from anxiety and a misguided sense of urgency, leads him to act independently of divine instruction, ultimately resulting in dire consequences. The narrative serves as a poignant reminder of the dichotomy between faith-driven patience and fear-induced impulsivity, highlighting that true patience is rooted in unwavering trust in God's timing and sovereignty. As we delve deeper into this biblical account, we reflect on the broader applications of Saul's choices in our own lives, urging us to remain steadfast in faith rather than succumb to the pressures of immediate action when confronted with uncertainty.
Takeaways:
- In the podcast, we explore the significance of patience as demonstrated in the life of Saul, particularly during his reign and the challenges he faced while leading Israel.
- Pastor Josh emphasizes the importance of waiting on the Lord, as Saul's impatience led to disobedience and dire consequences for his leadership.
- A critical point discussed is the distinction between patience grounded in faith and passivity driven by fear, which can lead believers to act against God's guidance.
- The episode underscores the theme that our decisions, especially those made in anxiety, can have profound implications not only for ourselves but for those we lead as well.
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00:00 - Untitled
00:23 - Exploring 1st Samuel 13
08:51 - The Conflict with the Philistines
09:04 - Facing Distress: A Lesson from Saul
17:05 - The Consequences of Saul's Impatience
22:51 - Saul's Justification and Accountability
30:05 - The Consequences of Saul's Disobedience
38:01 - The Reality of Control and Faith
Hello and welcome to the Middletown Baptist Church Podcast, where we are proclaiming the truth to the world.
Speaker AMy name is Pastor Josh and I want to thank you for listening to this podcast.
Speaker AI hope that this podcast can be a blessing to you and strengthen you in the word of God.
Speaker ANow, come along, let's look into the Bible and see what God has for us here today.
Speaker ASo if you have your Bibles, turn with me to 1st Samuel 13.
Speaker A1St Samuel 13.
Speaker AWe have been studying the life of Saul and watching how God's power that rests upon Saul has certainly impacted the way that he's made decisions.
Speaker AWe saw just a couple chapters ago, Saul being led by the Spirit, the Spirit of God comes upon Saul, and Saul makes the decisions that honor and glorify God in obedience.
Speaker ABut we're also going to see instances in the life of Saul that indicate that he does not follow God.
Speaker AAnd that's all about what First Samuel chapter 13 is about.
Speaker AAnd in First Samuel chapter 13, Saul has a problem with waiting on the Lord.
Speaker AAnd we would talk about a situation here where he is told something through Samuel, through the prophet, and he's told to wait to give a sacrifice.
Speaker ABut yet, because of his anxiety, because of his lack of patience, he moves forward and he moves ahead of God and he thinks that he's doing the right thing in his own strength and his own wisdom.
Speaker ABut yet we see that there's a great problem with what he does.
Speaker AAnd ultimately God definitely gives him a place of discipline here in this chapter.
Speaker ASo with that being said, we're in 1st Samuel chapter 13, and I want you to keep your finger there.
Speaker AAnd we're going to cross reference this passage with a passage that you're probably very familiar with, and That's Galatians chapter 5.
Speaker AGalatians chapter 5 in the New Testament tells us a list of the things that we call the fruit of the Spirit.
Speaker AThe fruit of the Spirit.
Speaker AFruit of the Spirit are essentially the manifestations of the Holy Spirit leading and guiding our life and our decisions.
Speaker AAnd as a Christian, we have a decision on whether or not we want to yield to the Spirit and follow the Spirit in obedience, essentially following God, obeying God, or to follow something else the Bible calls the flesh or the Old Man.
Speaker AAnd if we decide to work out the works of the flesh, the Bible talks all about that in Galatians chapter 5.
Speaker AIf you're interested in knowing more about that, you certainly can look at Galatians chapter 5.
Speaker AAnd starting in verse 17, it talks about the flesh and how the flesh lusts after Certain things.
Speaker AAnd verse 16 tells us that we can make a decision in Galatians 5.
Speaker AThis I say, then walk in the Spirit, and ye shall not fulfill the lust of the flesh.
Speaker ASo really what we see that even as a believer, we have to make a decision on whether or not we're going to yield to the Spirit and essentially obey God, or are we going to give in to the flesh?
Speaker AAnd so we go down to the famous passage in verse 22, where Galatians 5 says, but the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace.
Speaker AAnd then we see a word here in the King James, long suffering.
Speaker AWe use the word patience.
Speaker ABut essentially it's a picturesque way to describe someone waiting, having that type of patience in the midst of a life of faith, gentleness, goodness, faith, meekness, temperance.
Speaker AAgainst such there is no law.
Speaker AThe one I want us to focus on here this evening is that word long suffering or patience.
Speaker AAnd really what we see within our lives is that when we're walking in the Spirit, God gives us patience.
Speaker AAnd the root of patience is faith.
Speaker AIt's believing that God's going to do what he says he's going to do.
Speaker AAnd I can be patient and wait in that.
Speaker ANow, there's another side of the coin that a lot of people fall into, and we often call that patience.
Speaker AAnd it's something called passivity or passiveness.
Speaker AOftentimes there's the sin of passiveness.
Speaker AWe should be doing something, but we don't do it.
Speaker AAnd then there's times in our life where we shouldn't be doing something, and we do it.
Speaker AAnd so really what patience is, is patience is waiting in faith, believing that God is working.
Speaker AAnd passivity is basically this, I need to do this, but I'm afraid to do this.
Speaker ATherefore, it's based in fear.
Speaker ASo patience is based in faith.
Speaker APassiveness is based in fear.
Speaker AAnd so we see in 1st Samuel, chapter 13, Saul coming to a situation in his life where he can exercise patience or passiveness.
Speaker AAnd really, essentially, he doesn't do either one.
Speaker AEssentially, what he does is he just moves forward and does what he thinks is best.
Speaker AAnd oftentimes in our life, what that can look like is that God is making us wait.
Speaker AMaybe it's in a time of prayer, maybe it's in a time of service.
Speaker AMaybe it's just something that we want.
Speaker AAnd God tells us to wait on that.
Speaker AMaybe he doesn't say no, but maybe he says it's a time where we need to wait.
Speaker AAnd oftentimes, as Christians, we try to get ahead of God.
Speaker AAnd then we ask God to just bless our life.
Speaker AAnd that's what we see here in 1st Samuel chapter 13.
Speaker ASo without further ado, we're going to get to 1st Samuel 13.
Speaker AIt describes how long Saul has been reigning.
Speaker ASaul reigned one year.
Speaker AAnd when he had reigned two years over Israel.
Speaker ASo we see that there's been some time for Saul to kind of get into his place, kind of get comfortable with what he's doing.
Speaker AAnd ultimately we know that there are a lot of people that are coming against Saul and the people of Israel, one being the Philistines.
Speaker AYou're probably very familiar with the Philistines.
Speaker AAnd so that's what is going to happen here.
Speaker AThere's going to be this conflict with the Philistines.
Speaker AAnd oftentimes in Scripture when we look at these pagan people that are coming against the people of Israel, their pictures or symbols or likenesses of the situations that we might face in our life.
Speaker AAnd so we see here that Saul has been reigning for some time now.
Speaker AAnd it says in verse 2, Saul chose him three thousand men of Israel, where of two thousand were with Saul in Mikmash and the in Mount Bethel, and a thousand were with Jonathan, that's his son.
Speaker AThis is the first mention of Jonathan, his son Jonathan, and Gibeah of Benjamin and the rest of the people.
Speaker AHe sent every man to his tent.
Speaker ASo what we're actually seeing here in verse two is the form formulation of the Israeli army, the, the Israelite army, the Jewish army that Saul is putting together here.
Speaker AAnd before this, they really didn't have anything really formal.
Speaker AIt was just a lot of militias.
Speaker AAnd they would come together at times that they saw fit to protect themselves or attack certain places.
Speaker ABut Saul is putting together an army.
Speaker AAnd then we see in verse three, and Jonathan smote the garrison of the Philistines that was in Kiba.
Speaker ASo actually Jonathan leads these warriors into battle and there's this victory.
Speaker AAnd the Philistines heard of it and Saul blew the trumpet throughout all the land saying, let the Hebrews hear.
Speaker AAnd so we see this great victory happen with Jonathan and the people of Israel.
Speaker AAnd we, we know through different stories in the Old Testament that Jonathan was a.
Speaker AWas a fantastic military leader.
Speaker AHe was greatly gifted in that way.
Speaker AAnd he shows leadership, he shows the ability to attack.
Speaker AAnd we see that there is this victory that happens.
Speaker AAnd there's a lot of ways that we can deal with victory in our life.
Speaker ABy the way, a lot of times we think about how we deal with defeat in the Christian walk.
Speaker AAnd certainly it is to be noted how we should deal with defeat, how we should deal with struggles.
Speaker ABut oftentimes we struggle, sometimes even in the victory, because oftentimes we think about the victory being our own victory.
Speaker AWe think about the skills in our own selves being the reason why we had that victory.
Speaker AAnd we actually see here later on that Saul takes credit for this victory.
Speaker AAnd we know that none of us should be able to take any credit for any victory that we see in our life.
Speaker AUltimately, that's the victory of the lord.
Speaker ASo verse 4, and all Israel heard say that Saul had smitten the garrison of the Philistines.
Speaker ANow that's interesting here.
Speaker AThink, think about this for just a moment with me says in all Israel heard say that Paul, Saul had smitten a garrison of the Philistines.
Speaker AWell, really it wasn't Saul at that point.
Speaker AIt was obviously under his leadership, but it was really Jonathan.
Speaker ASo Saul could have had the opportunity to deflect that and say, no, it was Jonathan.
Speaker AUltimately it was the Lord.
Speaker ABut we see that that's the trend with Saul.
Speaker ASaul needs that approval.
Speaker ASaul needs that, that control.
Speaker AHe needs that man praise, so to speak.
Speaker AAnd so we see that happening already even in verse four.
Speaker AAnd that Israel also was.
Speaker AHad an abomination with the Philistines.
Speaker AAnd the people were called together after Saul to Gilgal.
Speaker AAnd the Philistines gathered themselves together to fight with Israel.
Speaker ANow this is very interesting here because we're going to see that the Philistines have a lot of technology.
Speaker AThey have a lot of at this point, chariots and, and powerful horsemen.
Speaker AAnd, and that's really where we're going to see this, this huge enemy that's coming against them.
Speaker AAnd so obviously that's going to be a cause for fear.
Speaker AYou know, a lot of times we can walk like we are champions of the faith when everything's going our way, when no one's coming against us.
Speaker ABut what really reveals what's in our heart, what really reveals how much faith we have is when the, the challenge comes when the.
Speaker AWhen the enemy surrounds.
Speaker AAnd so verse 5, the Philistines gathered themselves together to fight with Israel.
Speaker A30,000 Chariots and 6,000 horsemen and people as the sand, which is on the seashore in multitude.
Speaker AAnd they came up and pitched in Mikmash eastward of Beth Haven.
Speaker ASo this is obviously a daunting army that is surrounding the people of Israel.
Speaker AAnd there's could, there could be a lot of things that Saul does here.
Speaker AAnd we're going to see that, that Saul is going to be in Gilgal at this point, verse six.
Speaker AAnd when the men of Israel saw that they were in a straight.
Speaker AThey.
Speaker AThey see that they're in a difficult situation.
Speaker AIt says, for the people were distressed.
Speaker AAnd so because of Saul's leadership and, and because of the lack of faith with these people, they are in a place of distress.
Speaker AAnd, and ultimately we do know that there's times in our life where we will face situations of distress.
Speaker AWe will face situations that are stressful.
Speaker AI used to think that the.
Speaker AThe key to life was avoiding stressful situations.
Speaker AI used to think about that.
Speaker AI used to think about, well, you know what?
Speaker AI used to teach in a Christian school, okay, back in Florida.
Speaker AAnd so I came right out of college and I started teaching in a school.
Speaker AAnd I thought that that was the peak of stress in the world of teaching, know, 12th graders.
Speaker AAnd the most stressful moments for me.
Speaker AI'm just going to be honest with you guys.
Speaker AWhen the, when the principal would come in and observe me and those, those surprise observations, and of course, it was on the day that my kids were not acting the way that they should be acting.
Speaker AAnd I'm stressed out and I have so much stress.
Speaker AAnd I'm like, man, this is such a.
Speaker AThey put me through a lot of stress.
Speaker AThey make me do all these, these classes.
Speaker AThey make me do all these lesson plans.
Speaker AI'm just so stressed.
Speaker AAnd so I really thought that maybe if I just got another job, maybe if I just got.
Speaker AIf I, if I was another career, there wouldn't be any stress.
Speaker AAnd then I realized very, very early on in my life that it doesn't matter what career you're in, you're going to face stress.
Speaker ASo as a Christian, it's not a matter of avoiding the stresses of life, because the reality is there's some things that we can do to alleviate stress.
Speaker AI really do believe that.
Speaker AI think that a lot of the stress we bring on ourselves.
Speaker ABut there is a situation that might come up in our life that we can't avoid.
Speaker AAnd oftentimes we think about, well, what do I do then?
Speaker ABecause we see these guys in First Samuel, Chapter 13, and we see all the people around them and we say, well, should they be stressed?
Speaker AWell, to a degree there should be some distress because there's an.
Speaker AThere's an attack from the outside.
Speaker ABut there's a New Testament passage of Scripture that I think that we should think about.
Speaker AAnd when I saw that word that they were distressed, I thought about what Paul says in 2nd Corinthians chapter 4, 2nd Corinthians, chapter 4.
Speaker APaul is talking to some people about things that he has gone through that he's personally experienced in his life.
Speaker AAnd if you know anything about Paul, this is a different Saul, right?
Speaker AWe had the Saul, the Old Testament, the Saul of the New Testament, the Saul of the New Testament, or Paul, he went through a lot of persecution.
Speaker AIf anyone understood what it meant to have stress around him, it was Paul.
Speaker AI mean, he went and preached and people came against him.
Speaker AAnd he describes it this way in Second Corinthians, chapter four.
Speaker AHe says, we are troubled on every side, yet not distressed.
Speaker AAnd so what he says is that there's trouble around me, there's stresses around me, but at the end of the day, at the.
Speaker AAt the heart of the issue, I don't have to live in that distress.
Speaker AHe says, we're perplexed, but not in despair.
Speaker APersecuted, but not forsaken, cast down, but not destroyed.
Speaker AAlways bearing about in the body the dying of the Lord Jesus.
Speaker AThat the life also of Jesus might be made manifest in our body.
Speaker AFor we which live are always delivered unto death for Jesus sake.
Speaker AThat the life also of Jesus might be made manifest in our mortal flesh.
Speaker ASo what is he saying?
Speaker AHe says this, yes, there are some stresses around us, but I'm not distressed.
Speaker AYes, I can be confused, but I'm.
Speaker ABut I'm not destroyed.
Speaker AAnd at the end of the day, what really Paul is saying is this.
Speaker AWe have a greater hope in the Lord, that no matter what the stresses are around us, no matter what the enemy is around us, no matter what we're dealing with in our own personal life, we can look to the bigger picture of God being on our side and knowing that we're not destroyed.
Speaker AAnd so we go back to 1st Samuel 13, and we see the men of Israel.
Speaker AThey see that they're in a tight place.
Speaker AThey see that there is a lot of Philistine army around them.
Speaker AAnd it says that they were distressed.
Speaker AAnd then the people did hide themselves in caves and in thickets and in rocks and in high places and in pits.
Speaker ASo this shows what happens.
Speaker AOften when those stresses come.
Speaker APeople try to run from those problems for them.
Speaker AThey.
Speaker AThey.
Speaker AWhat do they do?
Speaker AThey.
Speaker AThey hid themselves in caves and they allowed themselves to get to the place where they thought they could hide from the enemy.
Speaker AThey went to the thickets, they went to the rocks, they went to the high places.
Speaker AAnd though they're really afraid, they're trembling.
Speaker AThey're.
Speaker AThey're going to a place that I think a Lot of times when we see the world today, we see people that when the stresses come, they try to run from those problems.
Speaker AThey.
Speaker AThey might not run to caves or thickets or high places, but they might run to substances, they might run to a relationship, they might run to neglecting the situation at hand to try to get away from the problem.
Speaker AAnd so we know that Jonathan, as the leader, was bold.
Speaker AHe went against the enemy, but the men of Israel were not bold enough to even stand against the enemy that they had before them.
Speaker AAnd so you've heard probably of the whole fight or flight situation.
Speaker AWell, these guys flew, they left, they were afraid.
Speaker AAnd I think that there's a lot of people in the world today.
Speaker AAnd I think that when we see these stresses come around us, what the world might tell us is just.
Speaker AJust avoid it, run away from it, slip away.
Speaker ABut instead we know that the Bible tells us to stand in the truth of God because God, 2nd Timothy 1, 7.
Speaker AFor God has not given us a spirit of fear, but of power, love, and of a sound mind.
Speaker AAnd so the reality is, is that we have nothing to fear.
Speaker AAnd so in that fear came the running.
Speaker AIn that fear came the hiding.
Speaker ABut we know that in faith comes the victory and faith comes the confidence.
Speaker AAnd yet we see them not having faith, even though God has promised his protection for them.
Speaker AAnd so verse number seven.
Speaker AAnd some of the Hebrews went over Jordan to the land of Gad and Gilead.
Speaker AAs for Saul, he was yet in Gilgal, and all the people followed him, trembling.
Speaker AThis is interesting here.
Speaker ASaul had the position as king at this point.
Speaker AAnd being the king, he was essentially the military leader.
Speaker AAnd he was there in Gilgal.
Speaker AThat's where he was confirmed.
Speaker ABy the way, if you remember back in the story of Saul, that was really the place where they anointed him.
Speaker AHe was confirmed as king, and he still stayed there.
Speaker AHe's.
Speaker AHe's there months and months later.
Speaker AAnd a lot of commentators might say that Saul was not in the place that he should be because he was trying to live in that glory of when he was confirmed as king and instead of being where he needed to be on the battlefield, but nonetheless we see that they honor Saul as the king and they're afraid, and so they go in trembling.
Speaker AAnd we're going to see what happens here.
Speaker AVerse 8.
Speaker AAnd he tarried seven days according to the set time that Samuel had appointed.
Speaker ABut Samuel came not to Gilgal.
Speaker ASo it's important to note that God spoke through Samuel.
Speaker ASamuel was a prophet.
Speaker AAnd Samuel had told Saul to wait.
Speaker AHe had told him to be patient.
Speaker AHe had told him to wait on him.
Speaker ABut he had said seven days.
Speaker AAnd the seven days had essentially run out and Samuel had not come to Gilgal, and the people were scattered from him.
Speaker AAnd.
Speaker AAnd so what does Saul do?
Speaker AWell, we're going to see Saul here make a decision.
Speaker AHe says, I've got to make a decision.
Speaker ASamuel's not here.
Speaker AI know he said away for him, but I got to make a decision.
Speaker ASo Saul, he waits.
Speaker AHe was in Gilgal for many months and he's been waiting and he's afraid and there's anxiety.
Speaker AAnd now every day seems to be stacking up against them.
Speaker AAnd he knew the Philistines were coming with a big army.
Speaker AAnd, you know, it's.
Speaker AIt's easy to see his anxiety here, basically saying this.
Speaker AI've got to make a decision one way or the other.
Speaker AI don't care what Samuel says.
Speaker AI don't care what God says.
Speaker AI need to do it.
Speaker AAnd so we know that Samuel told Saul to wait for him at Gilgal, but yet Samuel would be a little bit late.
Speaker AAnd sometimes when other people don't do what we expect them to do, that often causes us to work ahead.
Speaker AIt often causes us to have added anxieties in our life and added fear.
Speaker AAnd so the waiting on Samuel became stressful for him.
Speaker AAnd we see that the people are beginning to scatter.
Speaker AAnd he often probably thought that I need to make a decision one way or the other.
Speaker AAnd it's not prayerful.
Speaker AIt's.
Speaker AIt's not meditated upon the truth of the word of God.
Speaker AIt's not waiting on Samuel.
Speaker AIt's not waiting on God.
Speaker AHe just does verse nine.
Speaker AAnd Saul said, bring hither a burnt offering to me and peace offerings.
Speaker AAnd he offered the burnt offering.
Speaker ANow, if we were just to skim over that, that would not sound too bad.
Speaker AWe would say, well, isn't Saul doing the right thing?
Speaker AIsn't he just following God by giving a burnt offering?
Speaker AIsn't he just trying to do what he can?
Speaker AWell, there's a couple things that are wrong with this.
Speaker ANumber one, he's in complete disobedience to God through Samuel.
Speaker ASamuel is the prophet of God.
Speaker ASamuel is the one who says, thus saith the Lord.
Speaker ASo for Samuel to tell Saul something meant that God was telling Saul something.
Speaker AAnd Saul was told to wait on Samuel whether it was the timeframe that he thought or not.
Speaker AAnd he didn't wait.
Speaker ASo, number one, it was disobedience to God.
Speaker ABut Number two, we see that it's not even Saul's role to offer a burnt sacrifice.
Speaker AHe's the king.
Speaker AHe has nothing, no responsibility towards doing anything.
Speaker AWhen it comes to being a priest, he's not a priest.
Speaker AHe's not a priest or a prophet.
Speaker AHe's a king.
Speaker ANow, we do know that we have a prophet, priest and king in Jesus Christ, but not Saul.
Speaker ASaul is not a prophet, priest and king.
Speaker AHe's a king, but he was not a priest.
Speaker ASo he could not offer that.
Speaker AThat was a big issue, that he did this.
Speaker AAnd so he was not a priest.
Speaker AHe had moved forward with doing something that was not his responsibility.
Speaker AAnd so Saul had no business doing what he does here.
Speaker AHe is knowingly in complete disobedience to God, but saying, I better do something.
Speaker AAnd so I just want to pause here and I want to look at Saul's decision and I want us to, you know, obviously look at the negativity of Saul's decision, but also introspectively look into our own life to say, you know, have there been any times in my life, including I'm looking at my own life here, that I have just said, you know what, Lord, I'm tired of waiting.
Speaker AI'm just going to do it.
Speaker AWell, I'm just going to go ahead and get ahead of you.
Speaker AIt obviously is what I want.
Speaker AIt obviously makes sense to me.
Speaker ABut the Bible goes back to that idea of being spirit led and being spirit filled and saying, no, I need to have patience.
Speaker AI need to wait upon the Lord.
Speaker AI need to wait upon the Lord to renew my strength.
Speaker AI need to wait upon the Lord to give me clarity and guidance, and so he doesn't wait upon the Lord.
Speaker AAnd ultimately, what we see here is that Samuel does arrive very, very shortly after.
Speaker AI mean, it's almost.
Speaker AI would say it's almost comical to see how quickly Samuel comes after this, because it's like if you would have just waited just a few more minutes.
Speaker ALet's look at it here.
Speaker AIt says in verse 10 and as.
Speaker AAnd it came to pass that as soon as he had made an end of offering, the burnt offering, behold, Samuel came and Saul went out to meet him that he might salute him.
Speaker ASo it just shows the flaw to Saul's argument that, well, he's never coming, right?
Speaker AAnd we can often tell ourselves all these lies when we start to get into that place of anxiety and fear and hopelessness and doubt.
Speaker AWell, you know what?
Speaker AMaybe.
Speaker AMaybe Samuel's never coming.
Speaker AWell, the truth is that Samuel was on his way it says there in verse 10.
Speaker AAnd it came to pass that as soon as he had made an end of offering, the burnt offering, behold, Samuel came as well.
Speaker ASamuel arrives.
Speaker AAnd so Saul decided to perform this sacrifice.
Speaker AHe thought that he made the right decision.
Speaker ABut if he would have just trusted in God and just waited just another hour, another, another two hours, he would have been able to be totally walking in the obedience to the Lord.
Speaker ABut we know that it was a heart issue.
Speaker AWe know that Saul's issue was not just an action issue.
Speaker AOftentimes I, you know, deal with our kids and, you know, dealing with a child, you know, obviously it's a difficult thing and some of you are gurus on that.
Speaker AAnd at some other point, I might ask you some advice on it.
Speaker ABut at the same time, when we're dealing with our children, you know, we don't just want to be dealing with the behaviors, even though that is important.
Speaker ABut really my heart is that when we deal with our children, we deal with their heart.
Speaker AWe want them to not want to do wrong, not just stop doing wrong.
Speaker AWe want them to know why it's wrong and why they shouldn't do it.
Speaker AAnd that's really what we see with Saul doing.
Speaker ASaul is, is kind of like one of those leaders that is always flying by the seat of his pants.
Speaker AHe's always just doing knee jerk reactions.
Speaker AAnd it's kind of like this.
Speaker AHe's like, well, is this what you want me to do?
Speaker AIs this what you want me to do?
Speaker AI'm going to try to do it my way.
Speaker AAnd really, at the end of the day, Saul, he just does something with his flesh.
Speaker AHe does something just on a whim.
Speaker AHe does something without giving it care and consideration.
Speaker AAnd it really, we're going to see here.
Speaker AIt's a heart issue.
Speaker AIt's a heart issue.
Speaker AHis heart had not been given over to the Lord, at least not completely.
Speaker ASaul decides to perform this.
Speaker AAnd now Saul, he.
Speaker AHe has overstepped his role.
Speaker AHe has taken too far of a liberty in what God had given him.
Speaker AAnd so we see that he comes out to salute Samuel, maybe hoping to have Samuel be okay with it.
Speaker AIt kind of reminds me of, you know, like I pull in at the house, I use my kid as analogy a lot.
Speaker AI'm going to use them a lot tonight because they're not in here.
Speaker AThey probably won't hear this.
Speaker ABut when I get home and my kids like run out at me, I mean, a lot of times it's that they're happy to see me, but Sometimes it's like they're trying to get ahead of it.
Speaker AThey're trying to be really nice to me.
Speaker AAnd I'm going, okay, what happened?
Speaker AWell, dad, you know, you're.
Speaker AWhatever broke and knocked off the wall, like, okay, so now I know why you're trying to be super nice to me.
Speaker ASo, so, so Saul's coming out to.
Speaker ATo salute him.
Speaker AAnd I.
Speaker AAnd I get the picture of, like, Saul coming out to Samuel, trying to appease this, knowing that he did wrong.
Speaker AAnd, and so he comes out there and.
Speaker AAnd we see verse 11.
Speaker AAnd Samuel said, what has thou done?
Speaker ASo Samuel, Samuel knows, he understands, like, why are you coming out here?
Speaker AWhat's going on?
Speaker AHe says, what have you done?
Speaker AAnd Saul said, because I saw that the people were scattered from me.
Speaker ASo here's.
Speaker AHere it is.
Speaker AHere's what he does.
Speaker ASaul begins to give his excuses.
Speaker AHe begins the self justification.
Speaker AAnd this is what we do.
Speaker AThis is at least what I do.
Speaker AWhen I get myself into a problem, I start thinking about all the reasons why I did it and all the reasons why it makes sense.
Speaker AAnd so he says, well, look, because I saw that the people were scattered from me, he begins to blame the other people.
Speaker AHe begins to blame the situation.
Speaker AHe says, it's because of them I did this.
Speaker AI mean, this is the classic situation at the very beginning, right?
Speaker AAdam and Eve.
Speaker ARight, Adam.
Speaker AHe goes, you know, it was because of her.
Speaker AIt was the wife you gave me, right?
Speaker AAnd it's the idea that all of us come to a place in our life where we have to take accountability for the decisions that we make.
Speaker ABut Saul here doesn't.
Speaker ATo Samuel, he doesn't take accountability.
Speaker AHe says, because I saw that the people were scattered from me and that thou camest not.
Speaker ASo now not only does he blame the people for scattering, but now he's going to try to blame Samuel.
Speaker AHe says, you weren't here.
Speaker AWe can't blame somebody else.
Speaker AI. I can't look at somebody else and go, well, because you weren't with me.
Speaker AThis is why I had to do this.
Speaker AI had to sin because you were sinning.
Speaker ALike, first and foremost, even if a person was sinning against us, it's not an excuse for us to return back and sin.
Speaker AYou know, we.
Speaker AWe shouldn't render evil for evil.
Speaker AAnd so in this case, even though Samuel wasn't wrong, Saul accuses Samuel.
Speaker AAnd then he basically blames Samuel for not being there.
Speaker AHe says, you weren't here with me and that thou camest not within the days appointed and that the Philistines gathered themselves together at Mikmash.
Speaker ASo, so he really gives three reasons why he didn't listen to the Lord.
Speaker ANone of them are valid.
Speaker AHe says, one, the people were scattering, two, you weren't here.
Speaker AAnd three, the Philistines were coming.
Speaker AAnd so he gave all of his self justification.
Speaker AAnd, and so what I see this as, and I think this is something that isn't a stretch.
Speaker AI, I, I look at verse number 11 and I see number one.
Speaker AHe, he blames other people because it's his ego he wants, he says the people are scattering.
Speaker AHe wanted to be a good leader.
Speaker ASo he says, well, you know what, what are the people going to think about me if they're all scattering?
Speaker AI don't do anything.
Speaker AAnd so it's a care and concern of the perception of who I am.
Speaker ASo it's ego, it was a matter of pride, it was a matter of ego.
Speaker AAnd we even see that he blames Samuel.
Speaker AAnd so we see that there's a heart of bitterness, there's a heart of judgment.
Speaker AIt could go all the way through this.
Speaker AAnd we can see that even it's a heart of fear, right, that the Philistines were gathering themselves together in Mikmash.
Speaker AWe see all these negative attributes pouring out of a life of someone who was not walking in the obedience of the Lord.
Speaker AIt's just, it's like a cumulative effect.
Speaker AIt's a chain that keeps having more and more links when an individual is not following the will of God.
Speaker AThere's all these reasons, whether it be fear, whether it be judgment, whether it be ego, whether it be pride, whether it be just complete disobedience to God.
Speaker AThere is this cumulative effect that happens.
Speaker AAnd, and that's what he says here.
Speaker AHe says, verse 12.
Speaker ATherefore said I, the Philistines will come down now upon me to Gilgal.
Speaker ASo now what is he doing?
Speaker AHe's even making up situations that will happen.
Speaker ALike, I know this will happen.
Speaker ADefinitely the Philistines will come if I don't do this.
Speaker AAnd this, this is what I've seen even in my own life.
Speaker AI start making all these irrational premonitions about things that might happen.
Speaker AThey haven't happened yet.
Speaker AYou know, isn't that what a lot of times anxiety is?
Speaker AAnxiety is about something that hasn't happened, but we expect it to happen the way that we say it's going to happen.
Speaker AAt least that's for me in my life.
Speaker AI'm like, I know it's going to happen.
Speaker AThis is what someone's going to say, and this is what someone's going to do.
Speaker AAnd then I'm going to end up being in this problem.
Speaker AAnd it hasn't even happened yet.
Speaker AI had a situation, a couple, I think it was like about a week ago that I was just really stressed about.
Speaker AAnd I thought, man, you know what?
Speaker AThis is going to happen and this person's going to do this.
Speaker AAnd I was so stressed about it.
Speaker AI was worried my whole day.
Speaker AI was just thinking about it.
Speaker AAnd you know what?
Speaker AIt never even happened.
Speaker AIt just never.
Speaker AIt just all felt.
Speaker AI just had all this imaginary stuff in my mind.
Speaker AWell, that's what we see really happening with Saul here.
Speaker ATherefore said I, the Philistines will come down now upon me to Gilgal and.
Speaker AAnd I have not made supplication unto the Lord.
Speaker AAnd, and he says, and I have not made supplication unto the Lord.
Speaker AI forced myself therefore, and offered a burnt offering.
Speaker ARight there.
Speaker AWe see it right there.
Speaker AWe, we understand what's happening.
Speaker AHe, he.
Speaker AHe basically says this.
Speaker AWe saw the Philistines.
Speaker AThey definitely were going to come.
Speaker AIf he would have just obeyed God and trusted the Lord, he would have seen that God would have had them, that God would take care of them and he could have made.
Speaker AWhy didn't he make supplication to the Lord?
Speaker AHe says, and I have not made supplication unto the Lord.
Speaker AAnd so he admits there, he admits that he didn't cry out to the Lord.
Speaker AHe didn't ask God if he would have said here, if Scripture would have said that Saul went to the Lord and Saul called him to do this, then that would be a whole other Bible story.
Speaker ABut what we see here is that he didn't go to the Lord.
Speaker AHe didn't petition God.
Speaker AHe didn't ask for God's guidance and help.
Speaker AHe says, I didn't go to the Lord.
Speaker AI didn't ask him for the wisdom and the guidance.
Speaker AThen I forced myself, therefore, I compelled myself, therefore, and offered a burnt offering.
Speaker AWhat does he basically say here?
Speaker AHe says, I didn't go to God.
Speaker AAnd I felt like I had to.
Speaker AFelt like this was the only decision.
Speaker AAnd that's what Satan does to us.
Speaker ASatan and wants the boxes in a corner and make us think that the only decision is the bad decision and we've got to do it.
Speaker AAnd that's exactly what we see here.
Speaker AIt just seems, it just seemed to him, it felt to him like it was the right thing to do.
Speaker AEven though Saul felt compelled, he was like, like any of us we're not supposed to be ruled by our feelings, our fears, our concerns.
Speaker AHe didn't have to sin.
Speaker AWe know that.
Speaker AAll of us.
Speaker AWe never have to sin.
Speaker AThe Bible says in First Corinthians, chapter 10, that we don't have to give into the sin.
Speaker AGod gives us a way out.
Speaker AWe have the opportunity to seek after the Lord.
Speaker AAnd he is always willing and ready to give us the wisdom and discernment to overcome the difficulty that is before us.
Speaker ABut he doesn't.
Speaker AI think verse 12 is so telling.
Speaker AIn the character of Saul, he says, I didn't go after the Lord.
Speaker AI didn't make a supplication unto him.
Speaker AI just forced myself to do this.
Speaker AVerse 13.
Speaker AAnd Samuel said to Saul, thou has done foolishly.
Speaker AThose are some hard words.
Speaker ANo one wants to be called a fool.
Speaker AI mean, none of us want to be called a fool.
Speaker AAnd the Bible says the fool has said in his heart there is no God.
Speaker AAnd so really, the idea of being a fool in the biblical sense is not someone who is just unintelligent.
Speaker AOkay, that's not what that's talking about here.
Speaker AHe's basically saying this to Saul.
Speaker ASaul, you're acting like someone who doesn't believe in God, Right?
Speaker AThe fool has said in his heart, there is no God.
Speaker AYou're acting in your life as if there is no God.
Speaker AYou have a God that is protecting you.
Speaker AYou have a God who's providing for you.
Speaker AYou have a God who brought your people out of Egypt.
Speaker AYou have a God who part of the Red Sea.
Speaker AYou have a God who did all of these amazing things, but yet you're acting like he won't listen to you.
Speaker AYou're acting like he's not there.
Speaker AAnd so he says, you have acted foolishly.
Speaker AThou hast not kept the commandment of the Lord thy God, which he commanded thee.
Speaker AFor now would the Lord have established thy kingdom upon Israel forever.
Speaker AThis is some serious stuff.
Speaker AIt basically says this.
Speaker AYou've missed out on the big blessing of having your family, your.
Speaker AYour kingdom established in Israel forever.
Speaker ASaul had the opportunity to have his family line be the line of kings.
Speaker ABut yet, because of his disobedience, because of his selfish heart, because of his pride, because of his fear, because of his anxiety, it says here that he loses the opportunity to have the kingdom in his family name.
Speaker AAnd we're going to see where that is going to go.
Speaker AIn verse 14, he says, but now thy kingdom shall not continue.
Speaker ANow, right then and there, he could have.
Speaker AHe could have just wiped Saul out And said, you're done.
Speaker AThere's a new guy up.
Speaker ABut isn't this the character of God, that he's still gracious and patient to allow Saul to continue on, to allow Saul for a sense of repentance, to allow Saul to have a place of redemption?
Speaker AHe says, hey, look, you're done, but you're not really done in the concept of.
Speaker AHe doesn't cut him off right there.
Speaker AWe know that Saul is allowed to finish his.
Speaker AHis.
Speaker AHis kinghood, his.
Speaker AHis leadership.
Speaker ABut verse 14, he says, but now thy kingdom shall not continue.
Speaker AThe Lord hath sought him, a man after his own heart.
Speaker ANow we know who that's talking about.
Speaker AWe know that the next king is going to be a guy named David, a young man named David, who is characterized as a man after God's own heart.
Speaker ANow, is.
Speaker AIs David perfect?
Speaker ANo.
Speaker AIs David completely obedient in every way?
Speaker ANo.
Speaker AWe're going to get into that study.
Speaker AWe're going to see that David made a lot of mistakes.
Speaker ABut the difference between Saul and David is not that one was perfect and one was not perfect.
Speaker AThe difference is, is that David was a man after God's own heart.
Speaker ASaul was not a man after God's heart.
Speaker ASaul was a man after his own heart.
Speaker ASaul was a man after the heart of the people.
Speaker AHe wanted the people's approval.
Speaker AHe wanted the people's praise.
Speaker ADavid was a man after God's own heart.
Speaker ASo he says here, you missed it because your heart, not because of your actions.
Speaker AYour actions can be forgiven.
Speaker AYou can be you.
Speaker AYou can get to a place in your life to be broken and humble before the Lord and repent.
Speaker ABut God knew Saul's heart and knew that he did not have a heart of repentance.
Speaker ASo verse 14, it says, I'm going to bring a man after my own heart.
Speaker AAnd the Lord hath commanded him to be captain over his people, because thou has not kept that which the Lord commanded thee.
Speaker ASo essentially what we see here is that Saul misses out on the blessing because of his heart, because of his lack of desire to honor God and to obey God.
Speaker ASo we'll move forward a little bit here.
Speaker AIt says in verse 15, and Samuel rose and got him up from Gilgalan to Gibbia.
Speaker ABenjamin and Saul numbered the people that were present with him, about 600 men.
Speaker AAnd Saul and Jonathan and his son Jonathan, his son.
Speaker AAnd the people that were present with them abode in Gibeah, Benjamin.
Speaker ABut the Philistine encamped in Mikmash.
Speaker ASo this is essentially painting the picture of what happened.
Speaker ASamuel proclaims God's judgment upon Saul and his whole household.
Speaker AAnd, and now there's going to be a description of the situation that they're going to be facing after this.
Speaker AAnd so really, from verses 15 on down, we see the, the threat that the Philistines are going to bring.
Speaker ASo, so because of the lack of Saul's faith, it affects the people that he's leading.
Speaker ARight?
Speaker AIf Saul would have been standing in the faith of the Lord, he would have been able to see the protection of God not only upon his own family, but, but upon the whole people that he's leading.
Speaker AAnd that goes for us in our life.
Speaker AThe, the decisions that we make in faith will definitely impact those around us, but the decisions that we make in fear and anxiety and hopelessness are also going to affect the people around us in a negative fashion.
Speaker ASo there's the, the, the physical threat that we see here in the Philistines.
Speaker ABut also we do know that because of our lack of faith, there's spiritual threats that we can face in our life.
Speaker AAnd so we're going to see here in verse number 17.
Speaker AAnd the spoilers came out of the camp of the Philistines.
Speaker AAnd three companies, one company turned unto the way that leadeth to Orfra, unto the land of Shual, and another company turned to the way of Beth Horan.
Speaker AAnd another company turned to the way of the border that look into the valley of Zeboim toward the wilderness.
Speaker AAnd now we're going to see that as the Philistines come, the Philistines have really what we would see as military superiority over the people of Israel.
Speaker AAnd, and really, that's not, It's.
Speaker AIt's not always what we have in the physical realm that's going to give us the victory.
Speaker AWe know that as Christians, it's because of what God gives us in our spiritual riches and our spiritual weapons.
Speaker ABut at the same time, if people are looking without faith, they're going to see all of these things that the Philistines have, and there's going to be great fear and there's going to be great anxiety.
Speaker ASo let's move forward a little bit here.
Speaker AWe're going to finish the end of the chapter, verse 19.
Speaker AWe're going to see for the rest of this time all the different things that they're facing now.
Speaker AThere was no smith found throughout all the land of Israel.
Speaker AFor the Philistines said, lest the Hebrews make them swords and spears.
Speaker ABut all the Israelites went down to the Philistines to sharpen every Manish snare in his culture and his ax and his mattock.
Speaker AYet they had a file for the Maddox and, and for the Coulters and for the forks and for the axes and for the sharpening of the goat.
Speaker ASo it became.
Speaker ASo it came to pass in the day of the battle that there was neither sword nor spear found in the hand of any of the people that were with Saul and Jonathan.
Speaker AWe see that they're so overwhelmingly under matched when it comes to their spears and swords.
Speaker ABut with the Saul and Jonathan, his son was there found and the garrison of the Philistines went out to the passage of Mikmash.
Speaker ASo we get to this place where we're like, okay, wow, it looks completely hopeless.
Speaker AIt looks completely like God is going to give up on his people.
Speaker AAnd there were so few weapons available for the, is the Israelite army that really it was only the leadership, the royal family that had enough weapons.
Speaker AAnd so really the rest of Israel had to just find something to fight with.
Speaker AAnd so it was bad enough that they were outnumbered, but now we see that the Philistines have way more weapons.
Speaker AAnd so at this point in time, we're going to get to First Samuel, chapter 14.
Speaker AWe're going to have to stop for this evening.
Speaker ABut we're going to really see a place in which Israelites have nowhere to turn other than God.
Speaker AI mean, the only victory that they're going to be able to find is through the Lord.
Speaker AAnd they would have to trust in God for this battle.
Speaker AAnd this is where God brings us.
Speaker AEven, even in the midst of our struggles and our battles, God always needs to bring us to a place where we can't turn anywhere else other than Him.
Speaker AAnd oftentimes we don't want to get to this place.
Speaker AYou know, sometimes you hear the people talk about rock bottom and we're not necessarily talking about rock bottom as it comes to different things in our life.
Speaker ABut what we do need to understand is that as a Christian, it's the wisest thing is to get to this place as soon as possible.
Speaker ABecause if God needs to break us down, he will.
Speaker ASo the place where we realize that the only thing that we can do and the only place that we can rest in, the only place we can find victory is Him.
Speaker AAnd I can look to situations in my own life for that.
Speaker AI can tell you that I, I talk about it a lot because it was a pretty traumatic night for us in one day.
Speaker AIn the future, I, I want to give the whole testimony of the night that Silas was born.
Speaker ABecause there was a lot that transpired in, in that night, I can tell you.
Speaker AThere was a.
Speaker ASo leading up to that night, for whatever reason, I got like, I don't know what happened to me.
Speaker AIt was way before Silas was born, but I, I passed out.
Speaker AAnd someone was like, yeah, yeah, you passed out when your child was being born.
Speaker ANo, I had another two kids born.
Speaker AI didn't pass out.
Speaker AThere was something going on.
Speaker ANo one knows what happened, but I passed out.
Speaker AI hit my head.
Speaker AI was in the emergency room while my wife was laboring.
Speaker AThere was all this stress going on.
Speaker AAnd then, of course, some of you know the story about Silas being born.
Speaker AAnd it was, it was really one of the first times in my life that I just sat back and I said, okay, Lord, you obviously, I can't do anything right now.
Speaker AI, I, I am just totally undone.
Speaker AI'm putting it into your hands.
Speaker AAnd, and that was in the moment, as, as fearful as that was, it was the most freeing moment to just say, lord, you are in control.
Speaker AAnd, and he's the one who can control our lives.
Speaker ABecause really, the reality of all of it is, and I think we all know this is that as much as we think that we're in control, we're really never, ever in control.
Speaker AIt's always God in control, and we have to just relinquish that.
Speaker AAnd so that's where we're coming to.
Speaker AJonathan's going to have a plan, and we're going to look at that plan.
Speaker AAnd ultimately, we do know that God is so gracious and merciful to his people that even as their leader is disobedient, God still brings forth victory.
Speaker AAnd, and that's what he does for us, even in our disobedience.
Speaker AHe extends grace and mercy.
Speaker AAnd so we'll talk more about that when we come back next week when we look at 1st Samuel, chapter 14.
Speaker ABut may we not be like Saul?
Speaker AMay we go back and say, you know, are there points in our life that I'm struggling with patience?
Speaker ANot, not passiveness.
Speaker ABecause passiveness is.
Speaker AYou know, we look at some people and we say, wow, they're just so patient.
Speaker AReally, they're just passive.
Speaker AThey don't do anything.
Speaker AOkay?
Speaker AYou can never be accused of doing anything wrong if you never do anything, okay?
Speaker ABut there's sin in that.
Speaker AThere's.
Speaker AThere's sin in being passive.
Speaker AAnd so we're not talking about passiveness.
Speaker ALike, I'm so afraid I just won't do anything.
Speaker ABut there is a sense of not acting ahead of God and being patient.
Speaker AAnd then when he says go, then go.
Speaker AIt's that idea of, I'm ready to go, Lord.
Speaker ABut it's when you tell me to go.
Speaker AIt's when you let me loose.
Speaker AIt's when you tell me to start working and moving.
Speaker AI can tell you there's a lot of times in my life that if I would have just been a little bit more patient, God would have blessed.
Speaker AAnd there's a lot of times in my life that I.
Speaker AThat praise God.
Speaker AI have impatient.
Speaker AAnd I'm so thankful that I was.
Speaker AI'm so thankful that I, I waited and I didn't rush ahead and do something that was not part of God's plan for my life.
Speaker AAnd, and I think that that's a lesson that we could learn here from the life of, of Saul.
Speaker ABut what I, what I think we could boil it all down to is what we see there when God says to Saul through Samuel that he's picking someone after his own heart.
Speaker AMay we be those people that, you know, the reality is, is that my, my heart should be tied to what does God want from me?
Speaker ANot, not, not what I want.
Speaker AAnd then God just bless it or not what other people want from me.
Speaker ABecause that's a lot of times, sometimes I get wrapped up in that.
Speaker AYou know, I don't want what I want, but I want to make sure everyone else around me is happy.
Speaker AThen when I do that, that sounds good.
Speaker ABut ultimately, if I'm making other people happy and not making God happy, I'm not doing the right thing.
Speaker AI must first and foremost please the One who created me and the One who saves me, and then from there deal with the situations that fall out from that.
Speaker AAnd so that's something to think about as well in that lesson.
Speaker AThank you again for listening to the Middletown Baptist Church podcast.
Speaker AI hope that this sermon has been a blessing for you.
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Speaker AThank you so much.
Speaker AGod bless.
Speaker AHave a wonderful day.



