Understanding Assurance of Salvation through 1 John

The focal point of our discourse this evening centers upon the profound significance of nurturing a genuine relationship with Christ, as articulated in the epistle of First John. Throughout this episode, we delve into the essential nature of assurance of salvation, distinguishing it from the theological concept of eternal security. We aim to elucidate how an individual's confidence in their relationship with Christ can be affirmed through personal experience and understanding of His teachings. Furthermore, we explore the implications of this relationship not only for one's spiritual well-being but also its transformative impact on interpersonal connections within the community of believers. As we embark on this journey through the initial verses of First John, we invite you to consider the depth of your fellowship with God and the resulting joy derived from such communion.
Takeaways:
- In this podcast episode, we emphasize the significance of establishing a genuine relationship with Jesus Christ, underscoring that such a relationship transcends mere intellectual acknowledgment.
- The concept of assurance of salvation is explored in depth, highlighting the difference between being saved and possessing confidence in one’s salvation through Christ.
- We delve into the theological truth of eternal security, illustrating that once saved, a believer remains secure in their salvation regardless of personal belief fluctuations.
- The episode stresses the importance of fellowship with God and fellow believers, asserting that true Christian joy is cultivated through this communal and divine connection.
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00:00 - Untitled
00:00 - Introduction to the Podcast
01:37 - Introduction to First John: Assurance of Salvation
13:50 - The Invitation to Know Christ
18:34 - Understanding Fellowship: The Foundation of Christian Life
29:25 - The Importance of Fellowship in the Christian Life
35:15 - Understanding the Relationship with Christ and Its Implications
Hello and welcome to the Middletown Baptist Church Podcast, where we are proclaiming the truth to the world.
Speaker AMy name is Pastor Josh, and I want to thank you for listening to this podcast.
Speaker AI hope that this podcast can be a blessing to you and strengthen you in the word of God.
Speaker ANow, come along.
Speaker ALet's look into the Bible and see what God has for us here today.
Speaker BAll right, so we are going to be starting a new series here this summer.
Speaker BIt's probably not going to last the whole summer, but it's going to take up a good portion of our summer, and that's going to be here in First John.
Speaker BSo if you have your Bibles, turn there with me to the book of First John.
Speaker BIf you want to know where First John is, find Second John and turn back a couple pages.
Speaker BSorry, couldn't help it.
Speaker BIt's towards the end of the New Testament.
Speaker BYep, we have the so.
Speaker BSo just for everyone's clarity, you've got the Gospel of John, and then you've got the first, second, and Third John, which comes later.
Speaker BAnd so I know that sometimes you'll hear in church someone referencing John, and they say, which one?
Speaker BUsually if someone just says John, they're talking about the Gospel of John.
Speaker BAnd then usually people will preface their statements to first, second, third John, or 1, 2, 3, John.
Speaker BSo just to clarify that this is first John, not the Gospel of John, and what we're going to be studying here in this whole book is really, it can boil down to one thought, and it's a real relationship with Christ.
Speaker BA real relationship with Christ.
Speaker BDon't raise your hand, but probably if you have been saved for any amount of time, either yourself or you know of someone that has struggled with assurance of salvation.
Speaker BNow, what is assurance of salvation?
Speaker BAssurance of salvation is having the confidence that you are saved.
Speaker BThere is another theological term that we will mention through this study, and that is what's called eternal security.
Speaker BEternal security is the fact that when we are saved, we are secured in Christ as a believer in Christ, to know that we have salvation and know that we cannot lose that salvation.
Speaker BAnd so that's a theological fact that isn't affected by my belief at all.
Speaker BIt's affected by the fact that that's the truth of the word of God.
Speaker BBut there is something called assurance of salvation that can waver in the life of a believer.
Speaker BAnd so one of the passages of Scripture that I take people to when it comes to having complete confidence in their relationship with Christ and having that assurance of their salvation is First John.
Speaker BAnd so that's not the only way that we can study one John, but that is a perspective that we can take about the assurance of salv.
Speaker BBut also it tells us what type of relationship that we have with the Lord when we come to him in faith.
Speaker BAnd so that's what we're going to be talking about in this series, a real relationship with the Lord.
Speaker BSo look there with me in First John, chapter one, verse one.
Speaker BAnd we're going to go very slowly through this study.
Speaker BWe're going to just tonight talk about these four verses.
Speaker BNow, we will have some cross references and we will talk about a few different places in Scripture that align with what's being taught here.
Speaker BBut we're going to look at these first four verses and we're going to see what John is really basically introducing with this whole book of the Bible.
Speaker BAnd so he says in verse one, that which was from the beginning.
Speaker BNow we need to stop there.
Speaker BWhat is he talking about?
Speaker BIs he talking about the beginning of this earth?
Speaker BNo, he's not talking about that.
Speaker BHe's going back further than that.
Speaker BAnd he's going to be referencing a person here.
Speaker BAnd so I think that it would be good for us to understand some of the parallels in Scripture that can help us know who he's talking about.
Speaker BAnd so if you have your Bibles and you're able to turn to other places, go with me.
Speaker BWe could go to Genesis 1:1 in the beginning and, and the fellow that we're going to be talking about was there at creation, but this is talking about before that.
Speaker BAnd so go to the Gospel of John and look at the Gospel of John, chapter one, verse one.
Speaker BNow, same human author, same inspiration of the Holy Spirit.
Speaker BAnd so we see that these two passages of Scripture are tied together.
Speaker BAnd so by reading John chapter one, we're going to understand who John is talking about in chapter one of first John.
Speaker BAnd so look at John chapter one with me.
Speaker BAnd we're going to read just the first section here.
Speaker BIt'll, it'll suffice.
Speaker BOnce we start reading this, you'll, you'll understand.
Speaker BIt says in verse one in the beginning.
Speaker BSound familiar?
Speaker BHe's talking about that which was from the beginning.
Speaker BIn the beginning was the Word.
Speaker BNow let's pause right there.
Speaker BSome of you that have been in church a long time might know who he's referencing here, but we want to be clear about the fact that, hey, there's different people with different backgrounds and you might not know who he's talking about.
Speaker BSo who is the word Jesus, right?
Speaker BThe, the Greek word here is Lagos.
Speaker BAnd, and so what we're talking about here is not just the Word as the Word of God in the concept of the Bible.
Speaker BIn John chapter one, he's talking about Jesus here.
Speaker BHe says in the beginning was the Word, and the Word was with God, and the Word was God.
Speaker BAnd so what we can see here is that there's a lot, there's a lot of theology packed into verse one.
Speaker BAnd I can sit here and analyze this verse all day.
Speaker BWe won't for the sake of time.
Speaker BBut some things that you need to glean from this verse in John 1:1 is that Jesus is God.
Speaker BHe's not just there with God.
Speaker BHe's not just a creation of God.
Speaker BIt does say at the end of that verse, and the Word was God.
Speaker BSo it's important to understand that, because we take many passages of Scripture that teach on the Trinity, but this is one of the passages that speaks to the relationship between God the Father and God the Son, and how they are distinct, but yet at the same time God.
Speaker BAnd that's a deep concept to think about.
Speaker BBut what we can see here is, yes, Jesus was with God, so he's distinct from God the Father.
Speaker BAnd so there are.
Speaker BThere are a lot of false teachings out there that, that Jesus and God are the same person and they take different forms at different times.
Speaker BThat's a heresy.
Speaker BWe see that Jesus and God the Father interact.
Speaker BAnd so there's many cases in the New Testament which speaks of that, specifically Jesus's baptism.
Speaker BAnd obviously Jesus right before he goes to the cross in the garden.
Speaker BBut yet at the same time, there were people that taught, yes, Jesus, God the Son and God the Father, they're different, but one is above the other.
Speaker BAnd actually Jesus is a creation of God, therefore he is not God himself.
Speaker BBut what we can see here in verse one of John chapter one is that he was with God and the Word was God.
Speaker BThe same was in the beginning with God.
Speaker BAll things were made by him, and without him was not anything made that was made.
Speaker BAnd so this speaks of Jesus's interaction at creation as the Creator.
Speaker BAnd so we could take this all the way Back to Genesis 1, right in the beginning, before the beginning, there was Jesus, and Jesus is the Creator.
Speaker BHe's.
Speaker BAnd so what we can see, another aspect of this is Jesus's eternality.
Speaker BJesus did not start his life in Bethlehem, there in the manger.
Speaker BThat was his incarnation.
Speaker BThat was Jesus manifested in the flesh.
Speaker BBut Jesus is eternal.
Speaker BHe always has been and he always will be.
Speaker BAnd so we see that there in this passage.
Speaker BAnd then verse 4.
Speaker BIn him was life, and the life was the light of men, and the light shineth in darkness, and the darkness comprehended it not.
Speaker BAnd he goes on to talk about how John the Baptist was the one that was the professing Jesus Christ before he comes.
Speaker BAnd then, of course, there's a very famous verse there in verse 14.
Speaker BAnd the word was made flesh and dwelt among us, and we beheld his glory, the glory as of the only begotten of the Father, full of grace and truth.
Speaker BAnd so take John chapter one in mind when we come back to First John, chapter one.
Speaker BObviously, John here is referring to Jesus and how an individual can come to know the Word.
Speaker BAnd so that's what we're talking about here.
Speaker BWhen he says that which was from the beginning.
Speaker BAnd so he's referencing Jesus here.
Speaker BHe's referencing the person and work of Jesus Christ and the relationship that we can have with Jesus.
Speaker BAnd we're going to see that he introduces people into knowing that they can have that relationship with Christ.
Speaker BSo essentially, that's what we're finding ourselves here in the first few verses.
Speaker BSo he says that which was from the beginning, which we have heard.
Speaker BNow, John is speaking here in a personal way.
Speaker BHe's saying as.
Speaker BAs an apostle, as a follower of Christ, we have heard him, we have heard his teachings.
Speaker BAnd then he says, which we have seen with our eyes.
Speaker BThey've witnessed his work, which we have looked upon and our hands have handled.
Speaker BAnd so John is writing about Jesus, referencing the beginning.
Speaker BAnd.
Speaker BAnd this indicates that the one that he's referencing, this eternal being, this God that he is emphasizing here, he says, this is the one that we have experience with our own senses.
Speaker BThe idea is this.
Speaker BThe eternal God of the universe was experienced through Jesus Christ.
Speaker BAnd John was able to see him, hear him, feel him, understand him.
Speaker BAnd so that's the idea is he says, I know Jesus.
Speaker BI've experienced Jesus.
Speaker BThis is the interaction that I had with him.
Speaker BHere's the proof that he is real.
Speaker BHe came to earth.
Speaker BJohn 1:14.
Speaker BThe word became flesh and dwelt among us.
Speaker BSo Jesus came to earth.
Speaker BJohn and others experience him in.
Speaker BIn their life.
Speaker BAnd so the idea here is that this one that he is bringing up, this one that he is introducing here, is one who can be experienced and known and have a personal relationship with.
Speaker BAnd I think that's important for us to understand when it comes to teaching about Jesus, is that Jesus isn't just this entity that's far away and distant.
Speaker BHe is someone that we can experience, that we can know and that we can interact with in our lives.
Speaker BAnd so John is emphasizing this, this personal relationship with Christ.
Speaker BAnd so that's something to, to recognize here.
Speaker BAnd so what, what is the implication that he's referring to here?
Speaker BThe implication was that John's words have weight.
Speaker BThey have the eyewitness account.
Speaker BWhat basically John is saying is that don't take my word for it, there's others that have experienced Jesus.
Speaker BAnd so he's not speaking of a tradition.
Speaker BHe's not speaking of a myth.
Speaker BHe's not speaking of something that has been passed down from generation to generation for thousands and thousands of years.
Speaker BJesus was.
Speaker BNo, he says Jesus was experienced by us.
Speaker BAnd so he ends verse one with this phrase.
Speaker BHe says of the word of life.
Speaker BAnd so John identifies Jesus as the word of life.
Speaker BThis is that same reference to John, chapter one, when he refers to him as the Word Lagos.
Speaker BAnd there's a whole study that we could do with that.
Speaker BBut ultimately it's a reference to Jesus's deity.
Speaker BIt's a reference to Jesus all powerful nature, his all powerful, no limitations, omnipotence, omniscience, omnipresence.
Speaker BHe's referencing that verse 2.
Speaker BFor the life was manifested, and we have seen it and bear witness and show unto you that eternal life which was with the Father and was manifested unto us.
Speaker BAnd so he says, hey, this life, the life of Jesus was manifested among us.
Speaker BAnd so Jesus is, he's.
Speaker BHe's trying to prove that Jesus was physically real.
Speaker BNow why would he want to do that?
Speaker BNone of us, maybe that are in this room might understand the context or maybe you do.
Speaker BBut the reason why he's making such an effort here in chapter one to prove that Jesus was real was because that there was this belief system called Gnosticism at the time.
Speaker BAnd essentially it was teaching that Jesus wasn't something tangible that was actually there.
Speaker BIt was, it was something else.
Speaker BAnd there were some different schisms that were happening, some different groups that had different philosophies of this.
Speaker BBut what John is essentially trying to expose is this Jesus, yes, is 100% God, but yes, he's also 100% man.
Speaker BHe's trying to teach the complete understanding of who Jesus is.
Speaker BAnd so he's explaining that Jesus is the word of life.
Speaker BHe's explaining that he can be experienced.
Speaker BHe's explaining that not only did Jesus come and preach the message of the truth, but also he preached the message of a personal relationship with him.
Speaker BAnd so he says, hey, we want to show you that.
Speaker BWe want you to experience that.
Speaker BAnd so in calling Jesus the source of eternal life, John is probably going back and remembering the things that were told to him of Jesus, right?
Speaker BJesus explained, I am the way, the truth, and the life.
Speaker BAnd so he says, I'm the resurrection and the life.
Speaker BAnd so John is recounting the teachings that Jesus himself had given to him.
Speaker BAnd so Jesus is saying, I'm eternal.
Speaker BI'm God, I'm the way to salvation.
Speaker BAnd that's what John is recounting here when it comes to knowing Jesus as a personal savior.
Speaker BAnd he references again the relationship with the Father.
Speaker BThen we get to verse number three, which I think is important to understand, because this is.
Speaker BNow he's talking about the theology of who Jesus is.
Speaker BSo he's trying to paint the picture of the complete understanding of who Jesus is and what he did.
Speaker BBut then he's going to take it from the concept of the broad picture of who Jesus is.
Speaker BAnd now he's going to give an invitation to the reader for a relationship with Christ.
Speaker BAnd so it's one thing to talk about who Jesus is.
Speaker BIt's another thing to invite other people into that relationship.
Speaker BAnd so a lot of times what happens is when we talk about the word theology, we think that it's something distant or it's something that's only found in a classroom.
Speaker BBut really, theology should apply to every aspect of our life.
Speaker BIt should apply to our lives as a witness for Christ.
Speaker BSo my theology.
Speaker BSo what I believe about God, what I trust in the truth of God, knowing Him, that affects the way that I interact with others.
Speaker BSo if I truly believe that Jesus is who he says he is, I'm going to treat other people differently.
Speaker BI'm going to be more passionate about sharing him.
Speaker BAnd so what we see here is that John's theology about Jesus drove him to tell others about Jesus.
Speaker BAnd I think that's important for us to understand that theology isn't just this dry thing that we look at and we go, yeah, that's for those theologians.
Speaker BBut all I need to know is that Jesus loves me.
Speaker BYou do need to know that Jesus loves you.
Speaker BAnd that's part of theology, right?
Speaker BKnowing the true love of Christ.
Speaker BBut there's so much more to know about God.
Speaker BBut it's not just about knowing it intellectually, but then it's taking it from the intellectual side of things and applying it to our hearts and applying it to our lives.
Speaker BAnd so this is I think the transition from John saying, this is who I'm talking about to now you can know him as well.
Speaker BVerse.
Speaker BVerse number three.
Speaker BHe says, that which we have seen and heard.
Speaker BHe says, so the things that I've seen and the things that I've heard, He's given a testimony of his experience with who Jesus is.
Speaker BHe.
Speaker BHe says, we declare.
Speaker BDeclare we unto you.
Speaker BSo he says, I want to declare to you what I know about Jesus.
Speaker BI want to declare to you what I have experienced about Jesus.
Speaker BAnd.
Speaker BAnd I think it's important for us to do that in our own lives.
Speaker BIt's.
Speaker BIt's important for us to share with people what we believe about Jesus.
Speaker BIt's important for us to explain to people what Jesus has done for us.
Speaker BYou'll hear me say this over and over again.
Speaker BOf the best tools for evangelism is telling people your testimony, telling people who Jesus is and what he has done for you.
Speaker BIt's a very simple thing.
Speaker BAll of us should be able to recount that.
Speaker BAnd sometimes it's hard to get enough passion and desire and boldness to tell people that.
Speaker BBut really, it's not something that we're doing in the concept of going down and memorizing every passage of Scripture and being able to preach a sermon with three points.
Speaker BNo, it's just telling people what Jesus has done for us.
Speaker BAnd so he says, we want to declare this unto you.
Speaker BAnd so the purpose of John's declaration about Jesus's eternality is a physical nature.
Speaker BThe fact that he's the Word of life is to basically explain to people how they can know him completely.
Speaker BIt's not about just showing that he knows a lot about Jesus.
Speaker BIt's about bringing people to the truth.
Speaker BAnd he says, hey, you can enjoy this fellowship as well.
Speaker BHe says that ye also may have fellowship with us.
Speaker BHe says, we want you to experience what we have experienced.
Speaker BWe want you to have that same fellowship, and not just fellowship with other believers, but ultimately fellowship with the Lord.
Speaker BAnd so that's a.
Speaker BBasically, the first four verses here is just a great outline to how to share the Gospel.
Speaker BNumber one.
Speaker BTo think the right things about who Jesus is according to his word, to recognize all those aspects of his deity, his humanity, his eternality, his holiness, all of these things about what the Bible teaches us about Jesus and then his work.
Speaker BAnd then take that and say, you know what?
Speaker BI want to share that with others.
Speaker BWe want you to taste of that grace.
Speaker BNo, the truth is that we are called to witness.
Speaker BIt's not an Optional thing as Christians.
Speaker BBut sometimes we can share our faith almost begrudgingly, Almost like, well, we're forced to share our face.
Speaker BSo I gotta do this.
Speaker BBut how much more effective could we be for the cause of the gospel when we are excited and looking for opportunities to tell people about Jesus and his love for us?
Speaker BI think that so many times we do what we do without joy and excitement.
Speaker BAnd so he's going to address that here in a few moments.
Speaker BHe says here, hey, we want you to have fellowship with us.
Speaker BAnd truly our fellowship is with.
Speaker BAnd so he says here, this is where a true relationship is found.
Speaker BFellowship is with the Father and with his son, Jesus Christ.
Speaker BAnd so he doesn't say, hey, join our church and have fellowship with us, and then you can find a relationship with God.
Speaker BHe says, no, it all starts.
Speaker BEverything in the Christian life starts with a relationship with God.
Speaker BEverything else follows that.
Speaker BChange, service, desire, love, all these things.
Speaker BThey fall after understanding who God is and what he has done for us.
Speaker BAnd so the idea of fellowship here is really what I believe is one of the most important ideas in this letter, because it's talking about the fellowship that we have with God that affects the fellowship that we have with others.
Speaker BThe Greek word is koinonia, and we emphasize that here at our church on fifth Sundays.
Speaker BBut the idea of fellowship is this.
Speaker BI fellowship with the Lord and experience that relationship.
Speaker BAnd that relationship that I have with him will then manifest itself in loving others.
Speaker BAnd John is going to get to that here in this very book.
Speaker BHe basically says, in so many words, if you love God, you will love others.
Speaker BIf you don't love others, the love of God is not in you.
Speaker BYou don't understand the love of God if you can't love others.
Speaker BAnd what happens sometimes in our humanity is we say, well, you know, I love God, but I can't stand other believers.
Speaker BI can't stand people around me.
Speaker BYou know, I've heard people even say, and, you know, kind of a running joke, the church would be a great place if there wasn't all the problems with the people.
Speaker BBut the truth is, that's really what it's all about.
Speaker BThat is the church.
Speaker BAnd so what we have to do is we have to grow in our koinonia, our fellowship with God, so that we can grow in our koinonia fellowship with those around us.
Speaker BAnd so what we see here and what we see throughout scripture is that God is always more concerned with the motivation behind our action.
Speaker BHe's concerned at the heart of the issue.
Speaker BAnd he says, you got to know this fellowship, you got to know this fellowship with God so that you can have the right fellowship with everyone else in your life.
Speaker BAnd maybe you've heard me say this before, but if I want to be a better husband, I need to be a better Christ follower.
Speaker BAnd that better husband will fall in line if I want to be a better co worker.
Speaker BFor me to be a better coworker, the best coworker that I can be in Christ, it means to be a better Christ follower.
Speaker BBecause the more that I mirror Christ in my life, the more I'm able to exemplify the values that he has called us to live in our life.
Speaker BAnd so this idea of fellowship speaks of a, one commentator said this, a living, breathing, sharing, loving relationship with Christ and with other people around us, as hard as it might be, as difficult as it might be.
Speaker BAnd so I believe this is one of the greatest statements that we can find in all of Scripture because it basically tells us this.
Speaker BAll of what we have and the riches of our salvation are found in a fellowship with God.
Speaker BIt's a real relationship.
Speaker BSo, for example, if someone's struggling with assurance of salvation, let's think about some of the reasons why they struggle with assurance of salvation.
Speaker BI, I, I've heard people say, well, you know what?
Speaker BI don't know if I said the right words when I got saved.
Speaker BI don't know if I said the right words.
Speaker BTruth is, is that at the end of the day, it's not about the right words to say.
Speaker BIt's about, do you have fellowship with God?
Speaker BDo you have faith with him?
Speaker BAre you walking with him?
Speaker BAnd, and that's the idea that I think that we have to go to in our lives is that if I could lose my salvation, I would.
Speaker BAnd so therefore don't get stressed in what I have done.
Speaker BGet, get focused on the belief that I have in Christ.
Speaker BIf, if we look at the, the true, like, for example, I've said this before and some of you have heard me say this.
Speaker BIf someone comes up to me and says, you know, I don't think you're really married to your wife.
Speaker BAnd I'm going to look at them and I'm going to say, you're crazy, because I know that I am.
Speaker BWhy do you know that you are?
Speaker BBecause I am.
Speaker BAnd I've been there and I was at the wedding and I walk with her every single day.
Speaker BI know that I'm married, you know, and, and so you see how silly it is when we talk about concepts like that.
Speaker BBut then we have so many Christians that say, well, I'm not sure if I'm saved.
Speaker BWell, there's a lot of factors that go into that.
Speaker BAnd, and the truth of the matter is, is that if someone is struggling with that, go through the book of First John and say, is this something that is my.
Speaker BIs characterized in my life?
Speaker BDo I have a real fellowship with God?
Speaker BDo I have a real relationship with him?
Speaker BOr is it just, well, I've always gone to church, so I must be a Christian.
Speaker BCorrect me if I'm wrong.
Speaker BNot right now, but maybe later.
Speaker BBut if you go through this and you see what he's talking about when it comes to salvation, he never once says, well, have you gone to church your whole life?
Speaker BDoesn't say that.
Speaker BSo the mark of a believer is not attendance.
Speaker BNow, is attendance something that we should do?
Speaker BOf course, but that's not what saves us.
Speaker BAnd so he says, here it is, that fellowship with him that ultimately is the fellowship that's manifested in our life.
Speaker BI'll use this analogy.
Speaker BA lot of times people will say, I'm, I'm a good Christian because I read my Bible, I pray, and I go to church.
Speaker BThat me, that makes me a good Christian.
Speaker BBut then what if I told you, you know what, I'm the.
Speaker BI'm a good baseball player.
Speaker BI go out and I practice every single day.
Speaker BI, I go and I hit the ball.
Speaker BI go practice my throwing.
Speaker BI do all that well, how did, how did you do in your game?
Speaker BWell, I struck out every single time I went up to bat.
Speaker BI missed every ball.
Speaker BThat was to me, am I a good baseball player?
Speaker BNo.
Speaker BRight.
Speaker BBecause the proof is not in the disciplines.
Speaker BThe proof is in the product.
Speaker BRight.
Speaker BAnd so there's a lot of people that say, I'm a great Christian, I read my Bible, I pray, and I go to church.
Speaker BWell, did you exemplify the fruit of the spirit?
Speaker BLove, joy, peace.
Speaker BRight.
Speaker BAll of that list.
Speaker BAnd so what we're seeing here is that we can do all these things to try to manufacture Christ likeness, but at the end of the day, it's the heart of the matter.
Speaker BAnd so the true test is not, hey, I read my Bible this morning.
Speaker BI hope that you read your Bible, and that is a great help.
Speaker BBut how many of us know that reading my Bible does not necessarily equate for me following Christ?
Speaker BSomeone can read their Bible and go, that's great.
Speaker BNow let me go live my life in the spirit.
Speaker BOr someone could read the Bible and say, that's Great.
Speaker BI'm going to go live my life in the flesh, and therefore, I'm not going to exemplify anything that the scripture says.
Speaker BAnd so what I'm cautioning on is this.
Speaker BSometimes what we gauge people's relationship with God is.
Speaker BIs through, hey, do you do all your spiritual disciplines?
Speaker BBut at the end of the day, it's the true question is, are you in fellowship with Him?
Speaker BBecause if you're in fellowship with him, all of those spiritual disciplines will fall in line, and that'll be the natural thing to do.
Speaker BI could buy my wife flowers every day.
Speaker BI could.
Speaker BI could take her to all of her favorite restaurants, but at the end of the day, show no love.
Speaker BNow, if I'm walking with her in love, I'm going to do all those things that demonstrate my love.
Speaker BBut sometimes what we can do is we can try to start from the end and try to work our way back to the core.
Speaker BAnd what it has to be is that true fellowship with Christ.
Speaker BAnd so this is the idea of coining, not talking to somebody.
Speaker BI don't know how my relationship is with them.
Speaker BI'm not walking in step with them.
Speaker BI'm not sharing life with them.
Speaker BAnd so therefore, there's going to be a lot of uncertainty in my relationship with them.
Speaker BLet's go back again to, like, a relationship between a husband and wife.
Speaker BSomeone walks up to me and they say, how.
Speaker BHow's your relationship with Alicia going?
Speaker BAnd I go, I think it's going pretty good.
Speaker BOkay, when's the last time you talked to her?
Speaker BI haven't talked to her in, like, a couple years.
Speaker BBut my assumption would be that everything's okay.
Speaker BOkay, when's the last time you spent time with her?
Speaker BI just don't spend time with her.
Speaker BOkay.
Speaker BAnd then at the end, I might say, well, you know what?
Speaker BMaybe.
Speaker BMaybe the relationship isn't as good as I thought it was.
Speaker BYou see, the.
Speaker BI want to call it the foolishness of that.
Speaker BIt's the same thing sometimes as Christians, there's a lot of Christians that aren't walking in fellowship with the Lord.
Speaker BAnd then there's a lot of reasons for uncertainty.
Speaker BWell, I don't know if God really does love me.
Speaker BI don't really know if he really did save me.
Speaker BI really don't know if His Word is applied to my life.
Speaker BBecause you know what?
Speaker BI'm struggling with this.
Speaker BI'm struggling with knowing that where is God in all of this?
Speaker BAnd I think that a lot of times what happens is that we're walking out of stride with fellowship with Him.
Speaker BAnd so it's so much more than just saying something, getting part of a church and then saying, okay, everything must be okay.
Speaker BThere is a challenge here to walk in stride and fellowship with the Lord.
Speaker BNow, that's not what saves us.
Speaker BWhat saves us is faith.
Speaker BBut what I'm saying is, is that what he's about to explain here in a few moments is that sometimes we can have a relationship with Christ and then we abandon the, the truth of his word and we lose our joy.
Speaker BAnd so he says, I want you to understand this fellowship so that you can have true joy.
Speaker BAnd so this, this simple statement here means that one can have a relationship with God.
Speaker BAnd, and so for a lot of people that were reading John's letter, this was confusing for them.
Speaker BThey, they didn't really understand the concept of having a personal relationship with God.
Speaker BAnd there's a lot of people in our society today that don't understand that.
Speaker BLike, go into a church with religion and say, you can know God and be personally in a relationship with Him.
Speaker BThey're going to say what?
Speaker BBecause that's a foreign concept to someone who is trusting in other things for their salvation.
Speaker BAnd so this kind of relationship that John is describing here is only possible because of who Jesus is and what he has done for us.
Speaker BJohn 14:6.
Speaker BI am the way, the truth, and the light.
Speaker BAnd so the only reason that we can know God is because of who Jesus is.
Speaker BThat's what John is saying, you want to find God, find Jesus.
Speaker BIf you want to know God in a personal way, know Jesus.
Speaker BAnd that's what he's explaining here to these people that were confused about knowing God.
Speaker BAnd so it has more to do with just knowing someone intellectually.
Speaker BLike, I know a lot of people, but I don't have fellowship with them.
Speaker BAnd so when we have fellowship with Jesus, we will become more like Him.
Speaker BIt'll be more of a relationship that is, is not just I know of someone, but I know him in a personal way.
Speaker BLike, I could ask you right now, how many of you know?
Speaker BAnd I'll name some famous person and you know of that person, but you don't know that person on a personal level.
Speaker BAnd so what we're seeing here is a difference between knowing God, knowing His existence and knowing about him, and knowing different facts about him, and then knowing him on a personal way.
Speaker BAnd that's, that's the distinction here.
Speaker BAnd so what is he saying here?
Speaker BHe says, having a shared life, a shared life with Christ and a shared Life with others around us.
Speaker BHe says that, that, that, that you can have fellowship with us.
Speaker BMeaning.
Speaker BSo it's not just about a relationship with God.
Speaker BIt is, and that's where it starts, but it's also a fellowship with God's people.
Speaker BAnd I think that that's important to understand because the temptation for our society today is having a lot of segmented relationships.
Speaker BSo, like, okay, I want to have a relationship with God, but I don't want to have a relationship with other people.
Speaker BThe truth is, is that the Christian life was not made or created by God to be an isolated event.
Speaker BWe are supposed to be around other Christians.
Speaker BWe are supposed to fellowship.
Speaker BThat's.
Speaker BThat's the way that God has created us.
Speaker BAnd the, the analogy I had given this in our Bible study recently.
Speaker BThe way that I had it explained to me is this.
Speaker BIf.
Speaker BIf I go fishing and I catch a fish and I pull that fish up and I want to take a.
Speaker BI'm.
Speaker BLet's say, let's say in a world where I'm going to release this fish, okay, some people are like, release a fish.
Speaker BI'll never release a fish that's going on the frying pan.
Speaker BI understand that.
Speaker BBut let's say hypothetically, we're going to release this fish and I pull that fish out of water and does that fish die right away?
Speaker BSome of you know that that fish can survive outside of water for, for a short amount of time, but that's not the way that God has designed that fish to live.
Speaker BThat fish is designed to be in the water.
Speaker BThat's the way that God has created that fish.
Speaker BAnd so for a Christian to live outside of the fellowship with God and outside the fellowship with other saints, other believers, it's like a fish out of water.
Speaker BYeah, we can survive, but we're never going to be properly healthy and growing and thriving because that's not the way that God has created Christians.
Speaker BSo can a Christian be isolated?
Speaker BYes, but that's not how a Christian can live in a healthy way.
Speaker BAnd so there are a lot of factors that fall into that.
Speaker BObviously health issues and obviously folks that are not able to get out.
Speaker BBut that is not an excuse for the fact that we should still be around other Christians.
Speaker BThat's the whole purpose of what he's going to get to here.
Speaker BAnd so he kind of breaks down the book into two categories.
Speaker BYou have the category of a relationship with Christ and then how that relationship with Christ affects my relationship with others.
Speaker BAnd so let's look at the result of the relationship and there's a lot of things that we could talk about with the result of the relationship.
Speaker BBut he says here in verse four, and these things write we unto you, that your joy may be full.
Speaker BAnd so the result of this fellowship is joy.
Speaker BThis joy is not just a circumstantial happiness, but it's a consistent sense of cheerfulness.
Speaker BWe would call it maybe even in this world, optimism, the fact that we know Christ, no matter what happens to us, it's not, hey, everything's going well in my life.
Speaker BIt's no matter what happens, I have a relationship with Christ, and so I can have joy.
Speaker BAnd so it's not cheerfulness based on circumstances, it's cheerfulness based on your fellowship and your relationship with Christ.
Speaker BAnd so we know that that's something that even Jesus brought before the disciples.
Speaker BJohn 15:11.
Speaker BJesus says these things, have I spoken unto you, that my joy, that's Jesus speaking, my joy might remain in you, and that your joy might be full.
Speaker BAnd so Jesus tells us the source of that joy for a believer, and that is his joy.
Speaker BSo Jesus says, if you can't find joy, there's an issue there.
Speaker BNow, again, let me, let me reiterate some.
Speaker BSometimes when people hear me preach about joy, they say, pastor, go through a hardship.
Speaker BYou know, am I supposed to just be laughing?
Speaker BAnd no, no.
Speaker BAnd we're not talking about silly stuff, circumstantial happiness.
Speaker BWe're talking about joy in the midst of hardship.
Speaker BAnd what Jesus says is, because I extend you joy, you can have joy in the midst of every situation.
Speaker BAnd so even, even, even Jesus in John 17, John 17, if you don't know the context of John 17, it's Jesus's high priestly prayer.
Speaker BSo again, he's interacting with the Father.
Speaker BAnd his prayer for the, the believers is this.
Speaker BHe says, and now come I to thee, to the Lord, and these things I speak in the world, that they might have my joy fulfilled in themselves.
Speaker BSo it's the heart of Jesus that we would have the joy that he has given us in our life.
Speaker BAnd, and there's a lot of other passages that speak joy.
Speaker BThe joy of the Lord is our strength.
Speaker BThat's the book of Nehemiah, Nehemiah, chapter 8.
Speaker BAnd so fullness of joy is, is a possibility for Christians, that it's not just the possibility, it's the expectation for Christians.
Speaker BBut it doesn't mean that all Christians are going to find this.
Speaker BIt just means that if we're living properly with fellowship with the Lord and fellowship with others, we can experience this same joy.
Speaker BAnd so he says, you can find this joy.
Speaker BAnd that's what we share with other people.
Speaker BWe share this, hey, if you know Christ, this joy is available to you.
Speaker BAnd so John starts the book with the.
Speaker BThe very beginning, the very basic nature of who Jesus is.
Speaker BHe is God.
Speaker BHe is eternal.
Speaker BHe is the Creator.
Speaker BHe told us that Jesus didn't just stay in the spirit form, but that Jesus also took form as a man and was 100 man, and was manifested so that other people could experience him, touch him, understand him, have eyewitnesses of him.
Speaker BHe told us that Jesus is the word of life.
Speaker BHe told us that God is.
Speaker BJesus is different than God the Father.
Speaker BSo there's different persons of the Godhead.
Speaker BHe told us that we can know that God.
Speaker BWe can know that relationship with him with fellowship.
Speaker BAnd he told us that that can only be found through Jesus.
Speaker BAnd he tells us that the product of that relationship with Jesus is joy.
Speaker BAnd so that's his introduction, just those four verses.
Speaker BAnd so now John is going to transition from the introduction to dealing with.
Speaker BHe jumps right into the idea of sin and relationships.
Speaker BAnd so.
Speaker BSo he says, okay, if you trust in Jesus, this is what the Christian life looks like.
Speaker BAnd he's going to talk about the desire, hopefully the desire for a Christian not to sin.
Speaker BBut then he talks about what we do when we sin.
Speaker BAnd so there's a beautiful thing to understand that as a Christian, the expectation is that we don't sin.
Speaker BThe reality is that we will sin.
Speaker BBut the other blessing is that God has given us an avenue to come back into restoration in that fellowship.
Speaker BSometimes that fellowship can be broken because of our sin and because of our issues.
Speaker BBut the beauty of a relationship with God is that he is always there, extending that hand of forgiveness, extending that hand of grace.
Speaker BAnd we, in our humility, can come back to him and have that relationship restored.
Speaker BWe never lose that relationship with Christ.
Speaker BIn the concept of salvation, I use it similar to this is the idea that if my children say, you know what, dad?
Speaker BWe don't want anything to do with you, that would be a heartbreaking thing.
Speaker BBut that would not, biologically speaking, in our nature, that would not make that child estranged when it comes to He.
Speaker BHe is my child now.
Speaker BHe might not see me as a father, but there's nothing that's going to change.
Speaker BMicah, Nora and Silas, they're my children.
Speaker BBut at the same time, there are things that they can do to drive a wedge in our fellowship and our relationship.
Speaker BAnd so as a Christian, there's nothing that we can do to lose our nature as a child of God.
Speaker BBut there are things that we can do to drive a wedge in our relationship.
Speaker BAnd God's character doesn't change.
Speaker BIt's we who need to come back in repentance and confess our sins before him so that we can have that renewed and restored relationship.
Speaker BAnd that's what we're going to talk about next week.
Speaker BOkay.
Speaker BHis expectation for us is to walk in the light.
Speaker BBut when we don't, what do we do?
Speaker BWe have that restoration with him and that forgiveness in Him.
Speaker BSo I'm excited to speak to those things as we go along in this study.
Speaker BSo I think that First John is a book of the Bible that many of us might know certain portions of.
Speaker BBut I will say that it is a wonderful book to point people to when they are struggling with their relationship with God.
Speaker BMaybe they're like, I don't know if I'm saved.
Speaker BThe very first thing that I tell people to do is read the book of First John.
Speaker BBecause in the book of First John, you can see what it means to have a relationship with Christ and ultimately how to abide in Christ.
Speaker BAnd.
Speaker BAnd then he concludes with, you know, if you love God, what do you do?
Speaker BKeep his commandments.
Speaker BAnd.
Speaker BAnd we're going to conclude that in First John, chapter five.
Speaker BWell, I appreciate your attention here this evening, and I know that that's a lot to take in here on the first session.
Speaker BBut I think that ultimately, as, as believers, we, we need to have the right.
Speaker BWe got to start with the right belief about who Jesus is.
Speaker BIt has to start there.
Speaker BEverything else will fall down if we don't have the right perspective of who Jesus is and what he has done for us.
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