Navigating Doubt: The Foundation of Our Salvation

The principal theme of today's discussion revolves around the assurance of eternal life through faith in Jesus Christ, as articulated in First John. We delve into the profound understanding that possessing faith in the Son of God not only grants us salvation but also fosters a personal relationship with Him, characterized by fellowship and mutual growth. Furthermore, we explore how this relationship should manifest in our interactions with fellow believers, emphasizing that our confidence in God should translate into prayerful support for one another. The episode elucidates the critical distinction between mere belief and the active, ongoing trust in God's promises, which serves as the bedrock of our spiritual assurance. Ultimately, we reaffirm that our salvation is not contingent upon our deeds but rests solely on the grace and faithfulness of Christ, thereby inviting listeners to cultivate a deeper reliance on His Word amidst life's uncertainties.
Takeaways:
- In our exploration of First John, we delve into the profound nature of everlasting life granted through faith in Jesus Christ.
- The epistle emphasizes the necessity of a personal relationship with God, which manifests in fellowship with other believers.
- Confidence in our salvation is derived not from our works, but solely from our faith in the redemptive power of Jesus Christ.
- It is essential for believers to constantly remind themselves of the gospel, as it fortifies our faith amidst doubts and challenges.
- Understanding that biblical hope is a confident expectation rooted in God's promises enables believers to endure life's uncertainties with assurance.
- Prayer, when aligned with God's will, becomes a conduit for divine grace and strength, empowering us to live in accordance with His purposes.
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00:00 - Untitled
00:23 - Introduction to the Bible Study of First John
06:08 - Understanding Confidence in Salvation
11:55 - The Illusion of Control in Our Lives
17:41 - Living with Eternal Focus
20:16 - Understanding Change and Confidence in God
30:00 - The Importance of Prayer and God's Will
36:26 - Confidence in God's Promises
36:44 - The Importance of Prayer and Scripture in Our Lives
Hello and welcome to the Middletown Baptist Church podcast, where we are proclaiming the truth to the world.
Speaker AMy name is Pastor Josh and I want to thank you for listening to this podcast.
Speaker AI hope that this podcast can be a blessing to you and strengthen you in the word of God.
Speaker ANow come along, let's look into the Bible and see what God has for us here today.
Speaker AWell, all right, we're going to go ahead and continue our Bible study here in First John.
Speaker ASo if you have your Bibles, turn there with me.
Speaker AFirst John, chapter five.
Speaker AWe left off at verse number 12 last week, and what verse number 12 was telling us is how we as humans can find life, not just life that we talk about right now with living and breathing but everlasting life.
Speaker AAnd he's talking here in First John about having a, a knowledge of who God is, but more than just a knowledge of who God is, having a personal relationship with him.
Speaker AAnd so the, the book of First John is all about fellowship, fellowship with God.
Speaker AAnd then when we have that relationship with God in our salvation, it will be manifested by our fellowship with others, other believers.
Speaker AAnd so fellowship with God and fellowship with others.
Speaker AAnd so here in this passage, he's concluding his thoughts with the understanding of reminding us who has that type of confidence, who has that type of fellowship, who has that type of hope.
Speaker AAnd verse 12, he that hath the son hath life, and he that hath not the Son hath not life.
Speaker ASo he makes it very clear that the person who puts his or her faith in Jesus Christ and him alone for salvation is the one who has received life.
Speaker AIf you want to cross reference that passage, you could look in the Gospel of John.
Speaker AIt's amazing how the Gospel of John ties together right in with first, second and Third John.
Speaker ABut if you look at the Gospel of John and you look at a John, chapter one, verse number 12, we see the same reiteration of the fact that those who believe, those who receive those are the ones who are adopted into the family of God.
Speaker ASo for Gospel of John, chapter 1, verse 12.
Speaker ABut as many as received him to them gave he power to be the sons of God, even to them that believe on his name.
Speaker AAnd so it's this idea that it's not just somebody who has good intentions.
Speaker AIt's not just someone who is a good person, who does good works or goes to church or, or tries to give money to a good cause.
Speaker AIt says very clearly here in First John, those who can start in that fellowship with God must start in faith.
Speaker AFaith is the Starting point to having fellowship with God.
Speaker AIt's not the end because many of us believe that, hey, you know what?
Speaker AI've trusted in Jesus and now I'm good now.
Speaker AI don't need to change anything.
Speaker AThat's, that's in our human nature, what we believe.
Speaker AWe believe sometimes, well, I've got my ticket to heaven now.
Speaker AI can just coast.
Speaker ABut the Bible says no, there's something else.
Speaker ABecause now that we have faith in God, we have access to God.
Speaker AHebrews chapter four tells us that we have access to God in that relationship.
Speaker AAnd now it's that growth process.
Speaker ASo we have salvation that that starts that relationship.
Speaker AAnd then we have something called sanctification, that is that spiritual growth that happens after our justification, after our transformation.
Speaker AAnd so he says, he that hath the Son hath life, everlasting life.
Speaker AYou guys know John 3:16?
Speaker AFor God so loved the world that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish but have everlasting life.
Speaker AAnd so he's talking about not just having a good life now, even though being a believer does bring confidence and does bring hope, it doesn't necessarily bring good circumstances.
Speaker AI wish I could tell you that if you trust in Jesus Christ today, everything in your life is just become smooth.
Speaker AIt's going to be easy.
Speaker ABut that's not what the Bible teaches.
Speaker ABut the Bible doesn't teach that, hey, once I get saved, all my circumstances will be okay.
Speaker ABut it does teach that once I'm saved and I have that relationship with God, no matter what my circumstances are, I have hope in him because of the confidence that I have in my everlasting life and in his presence and his power and his provisions in my life now as a child of the King.
Speaker ASo what we're looking at here tonight is a verse that I take is one of my favorite verses.
Speaker ABecause this verse is a passage of scripture that we can point people to to say that the Bible says that we can have confidence in him.
Speaker AWe can know that we have everlasting life.
Speaker AI don't know if any of you have ever talked to somebody and maybe you were talking about eternal things, maybe you're talking about salvation.
Speaker AMaybe you were even trying to share the gospel with somebody.
Speaker AAnd they said, well, how could I really know for sure if I'm going to heaven?
Speaker AHow could I really.
Speaker ANo, I, I, I hope that I'm going to heaven one day.
Speaker AI, I hope that God will smile upon me and, and forgive me of my sins.
Speaker ABut I, I don't really know how we could know a hundred percent, with 100% certainty that I'm going to heaven.
Speaker AWell, verse 13 tells us in, in First John, chapter 5, these things have I written unto you.
Speaker AAnd so he's referencing all the things that are here in First John, all the things about who Jesus is, what he has done, what it means to have faith in him.
Speaker AAnd he says, these things have I written unto you that believe on the name of the Son of God.
Speaker ASo he reiterates, this is written to Christians.
Speaker AThis is written to people who believe in God.
Speaker ASo we need to stop here.
Speaker AThis is not a confidence for every single person that walks this earth.
Speaker AThis is, this is not a type of confidence that can be extended to somebody who does not believe in Jesus who is living his or her life in the flesh, living his or her life in rebellion.
Speaker AAnd, and so he says this type of confidence that you're about to hear about comes through those that believe on the name of the Son of God.
Speaker AAnd so John is basically expressing his confidence in God and he says, this is my confidence in God, and this is the type of confidence that you should have in God when you trust in him.
Speaker AAnd so he's stating a, a very plain message, and he's trying to persuade the reader here that is, is.
Speaker AIs believing in Jesus, that they can be confident, that they can have assurance in what God has said when it comes to our salvation.
Speaker AAnd so we need to hear the gospel message initially.
Speaker AAnd I think a lot of times what happens with Christians is we think that the gospel is for people who are not saved.
Speaker AAnd once we're saved, now we don't need the gospel, but we need to be reminded of the gospel on a regular basis.
Speaker AEven if we've been saved for 50 years, we need to be reminded of the gospel.
Speaker AWhy?
Speaker ABecause sometimes we're tempted to doubt things about God's word.
Speaker ASometimes we're tempted to doubt, maybe you've never doubted this, but some people have.
Speaker AThey've doubted their salvation.
Speaker AThey've doubted if they've done enough.
Speaker AThey've doubted if they've lost it.
Speaker AThey've doubted if this sin has caused a division between God and, and man.
Speaker AAnd so what we see here in this case is that he says, no, remember what your salvation is based off of.
Speaker AYour salvation is not based off of your good works.
Speaker AYou were not saved by your good works, and you don't keep your salvation by your good works.
Speaker AYou're not saved by being a person who is a member of A church, you're saved through faith in Jesus Christ.
Speaker AAnd so John's confidence here is the confidence that all believers should have.
Speaker AAnd he wants us to know that we have eternal life.
Speaker ARemember that word confidence.
Speaker AWe're going to talk about that here in a few minutes, but remember that word confidence, because we're going to come back to that.
Speaker ABut he says, these things have I written unto you that believe on the name of the Son of God that ye may know that ye have eternal life, that ye may know that ye have eternal life.
Speaker ASo he says, it's not a guessing game, it's not a wish.
Speaker AIt's not crossing my fingers and hoping.
Speaker ABy the way, when the Bible uses the word hope, it's not talking about crossing our fingers and saying, well, maybe this is going to happen.
Speaker ABecause in, in our English language, when we use the word hope, sometimes there's a lack of certainty, like, I hope that it doesn't rain tomorrow, and it may rain or it might not rain, depending on the weather forecast.
Speaker AAnd sometimes that's wrong.
Speaker AActually, most of the time the weather forecast is wrong.
Speaker AAnd so we can have hope in something in this world.
Speaker AAnd that we understand means like, well, maybe that will happen, maybe that won't happen.
Speaker ABut biblical hope, if you dig deeper into the meaning of biblical hope, it's a confident expectation that God is going to keep his word.
Speaker AA confident expectation that God is going to keep his word.
Speaker ASo when we say that we have hope in God, what we are basically saying is this.
Speaker AWe confidently believe that God is going to do what he says he will do.
Speaker AAnd so he says these things, I write to you so that you can have confidence in God.
Speaker ANow, that word confidence is a word that we get in our English language from a Latin word.
Speaker ATwo words, confide, con, meaning with fide, meaning faith.
Speaker AIt essentially means to be with faith, to live with faith, to stand in our faith.
Speaker AAnd so he says, here, I've written you these things, not so that you can just read it and check a box, but I've written this to you so that you can come back to it and have confidence when you're tempted to doubt, when you have.
Speaker AWhen you have those feelings.
Speaker AAnd by the way, sometimes feelings will dictate our.
Speaker AOur beliefs, sometimes feelings will dictate our emotions.
Speaker AAnd sometimes our feelings will tell us.
Speaker AThough feelings are valid, feelings aren't necessarily objectively always true.
Speaker AAnd sometimes circumstances can happen to drive our feelings to a place where we're doubting whether or not God loves us or whether or not God is even there or whether or not we're even saved.
Speaker AAnd so what he's basically telling us in this passage is this.
Speaker ADon't go by what the world is telling you.
Speaker ADon't go by what your flesh is telling you.
Speaker ADon't even go by what your heart is telling you.
Speaker ABecause a lot of people will say this, well, just trust your heart.
Speaker AWhat is your heart telling you right now in this moment?
Speaker AAnd that sounds good.
Speaker AThat sounds like a good tagline for a movie.
Speaker ATrust your heart.
Speaker ABut the Bible says in the book of Jeremiah that your heart is desperately wicked.
Speaker AIt will deceive you because it's made of flesh.
Speaker AAnd so what do we go to for our confidence?
Speaker AWhat do we go to when we're tempted to doubt, when we're tempted to be confused?
Speaker AWe go back to the Word.
Speaker AWe go back to the objective truth that never changes.
Speaker AWe, we.
Speaker AWe go back to God and His power.
Speaker AAnd we realize that God never fails.
Speaker AWe realize that God is not going to separate us from his love.
Speaker AWe realize that God is never going to leave us nor forsake us.
Speaker AAnd so what he says here is this.
Speaker AGo back to what is written.
Speaker AGo back to the Word for your confidence.
Speaker AIf any of us here or those that are watching online have been tempted to doubt your salvation, don't go to your feelings right now.
Speaker ADon't go to your circumstances.
Speaker AGo to what you put your faith in.
Speaker AIn the initial part, what was the initial thing that saved you?
Speaker AFaith in Jesus Christ.
Speaker AFor by grace are you saved through faith and that not of yourselves.
Speaker AIt is a gift of God, not of works, lest any man should boast.
Speaker AAnd so what we can see here is this.
Speaker AHe's essentially reminding the believer that our salvation does not depend on us.
Speaker AOur salvation depends on what Jesus Christ has done for us.
Speaker AAnd so we can know that we have assurance.
Speaker ABecause when we trust in Jesus, we trust in the One who always keeps his word, the One who is all powerful, the One who knows all things.
Speaker AIf I'm trusting in myself for my salvation, of course I'm going to doubt it.
Speaker AIf I'm trusting in myself for clarity and for truth and for power and for whatever we might be needing in our life, eventually my well is going to run dry.
Speaker AEventually my gas tank is going to be on E. And eventually I'm going to stop and I'm going to be stuck and I'm going to be in a place to doubt God when really I should be doubting myself and relying on God more.
Speaker AThere's a passage of Scripture that I really was meditating upon, during, as.
Speaker AAs some of you know, some of you don't know, almost two years ago when our son was born, there was a lot of difficulty with that, and I felt powerless.
Speaker AAnd, and the reality is, is that I really was powerless prior to my son being born.
Speaker AI realized that now, but at some degree, I thought that I had control.
Speaker AAnd, and I think I've been thinking about that word control a lot recently because all of us to some degree, want to have some type of control over something in our life, and some people actually take it even too far, and they want to control every element of their life.
Speaker AAnd, and as a believer, I think that we have to rethink what that word control is all about.
Speaker ABecause for me, I might be under the illusion that I am under my own control and that I do have all things handled, and I do have everything going the way that I think it should go.
Speaker ABut that's sometimes an illusion when we are.
Speaker AGod opens our eyes to really what the truth is and that he is in control and that when we're powerless.
Speaker ASo, so when I felt powerless, I was.
Speaker AI was struggling with that.
Speaker AI said, lord, why do I feel powerless?
Speaker AWhy do I feel like I'm lost?
Speaker AWhy do I feel like you've pulled your hand off of me?
Speaker AAnd what, what really God spoke to me through His Word was this.
Speaker AIt was this idea that I am powerless.
Speaker AAnd when I try to control something with my powerlessness, I'm going to find doubt, I'm going to find hopelessness.
Speaker AI'm going to find confusion.
Speaker ABut when I realize that I have completely lost control, but God can take control.
Speaker AWe see this amazing thing happening, and, and we see it in Second Corinthians, chapter nine.
Speaker AAnd, and I think that it's something that.
Speaker AAnd I think that it's something that we should all see in our own life.
Speaker AAnd, and, and I think that as a believer, I, I struggle sometimes.
Speaker AAnd I think if we're all honest, we all struggle with this sense of, like, I, I feel powerless.
Speaker AI, I don't feel like I know what's going on.
Speaker ALike, look at the news.
Speaker ALike, some of us are just like, what's going on?
Speaker AIt just seems like.
Speaker ASeems like the whole world is burning up.
Speaker AAnd I, and I agree with that.
Speaker AI think.
Speaker AI think that there are points in our.
Speaker AOur life that we have to realize that there is around us, circumstantially speaking, a lot of things going on that we can't explain, that we can't control.
Speaker AI said second Corinthians, chapter nine.
Speaker AI meant second Corinthians, chapter 12.
Speaker AAnd you go to verse number nine.
Speaker AAnd if you know the context of this passage of Scripture, Paul is talking about a thorn in his flesh, and he's asking God to remove that thorn, to remove that circumstance.
Speaker AAnd God answers him, but does not answer him the way that probably he was praying for initially, because we know he was praying for the thorn to be removed.
Speaker AAnd sometimes that's how we pray.
Speaker AAnd we're going to talk about prayer here in a minute, but we pray, lord, get this away from me, because this is what's causing me to struggle.
Speaker AAnd sometimes God's answer is, well, it's not my will for that thorn to be removed.
Speaker AIt's there for you to learn about your role in this relationship.
Speaker AAnd in Second Corinthians, chapter 12, verse 9, this is God's response to Paul.
Speaker AWhen Paul is pleading with God to remove this thorn, he says, my grace is sufficient for thee.
Speaker AGod says to Paul, my grace is sufficient.
Speaker AAll you need is my grace.
Speaker AYou don't need the thorn to be gone.
Speaker AYou might want the thorn to be gone.
Speaker AWhat do you need?
Speaker AYou need my grace.
Speaker AYou need my presence.
Speaker AMy grace is sufficient.
Speaker AIf I pull that out of your life, nothing changes.
Speaker AMy grace is still sufficient because that removal of that thorn would be his grace.
Speaker ABut even if God allows that thorn to still be in our life and that struggle to be in our life, and that.
Speaker AThat problem in our life, whatever that problem might be that's causing us to feel like we've lost control, he says, my grace is sufficient for thee.
Speaker AAnd then I read these words, and it cut me to the core when I read these.
Speaker ABut it's true.
Speaker AHe says, my grace is sufficient for thee, for my strength is made perfect in weakness.
Speaker AGod says it's when you realize that you are powerless without him.
Speaker ABecause we're going to talk about the power that we do have.
Speaker ABecause, by the way, we do have power as believers, but it's not our power.
Speaker ASo in our humanity, in our flesh, we are powerless.
Speaker ABut the Bible says it's in that moment when we recognize that weakness where God can have his power be on display.
Speaker AGod says, my strength is made perfect in weakness.
Speaker AAnd so it's when we relinquish our control and say, lord, I know I'm not in control.
Speaker AI. I know that I'm limited.
Speaker AI know that I am going to lose my salvation if I could lose it.
Speaker AAnd then that's the moment when God's power can rest upon us.
Speaker AAnd we can be used by him through way of testimony, through way of reaching people for.
Speaker AFor Christ, for way of being a.
Speaker AA beacon of light to a dark world.
Speaker ABecause the world is looking for answers right now.
Speaker AIt's a reality.
Speaker AThe church is looking for answers, but we have the answer.
Speaker AAnd sometimes the church is struggling with things and we need to just go back to the truth.
Speaker AWe need to go back to the Word.
Speaker AWe need to go back to the gospel.
Speaker AThat's the answer for all of this.
Speaker AAnd so the world is looking for answers.
Speaker AAnd so what do we do?
Speaker AWe don't just complain about all the bad things going on.
Speaker AWe tell them we have hope in Jesus Christ.
Speaker AWe have everlasting life.
Speaker AAnd so these things have I written unto you that believe on the name of the Son of God that you might know that you have everlasting life.
Speaker AAs Christians, we have to live like we know that we have everlasting life.
Speaker AIf we act like we're not living for an everlasting life, what are we going to be living for?
Speaker AWell, if we're not living for everlasting life, we're living for this life.
Speaker AAnd if we're living for this life, this life is a.
Speaker AIs a miserable place to live for.
Speaker AIf it's living for just getting more and more things.
Speaker AYou know, the classic adage is this, the one who dies with the most toys wins.
Speaker AI mean, that's a terrible way to live, right?
Speaker AThat's a terrible way to live.
Speaker AI mean, it's nice to have things in this world.
Speaker AAnd I don't think God is against us having things, but if that's what we're living for, then we're missing the point.
Speaker AAnd many Christians are living for the here and now only and missing the hope that we have in eternity.
Speaker ASo it's easy to understand why a Christian who has hope in the everlasting life will turn on the TV or the phone and see news in the world and go, oh, no, the sky is falling.
Speaker AMaybe even literally the sky is falling.
Speaker AAnd now we have no hope.
Speaker AAnd now we have to live.
Speaker AAnd, and then what happens is, is when we live that way with no hope, then we're living just like the world lives, and we're no different than them.
Speaker AAnd as Christians, we have to be the light.
Speaker AThe Bible says, be salt and light to a lost and dying world.
Speaker AWhy?
Speaker ASo that they may see your good works and glorify your Father, which is in heaven.
Speaker ASo living with confidence is not for me, even though that's what we would.
Speaker ABecause selfishly, we think everything's about us, right?
Speaker ABut to live with confidence is not just for me, so that I can live with peace, even though there is a blessing in that, but it's also so that we can live confidently and boldly in front of people for the cause of the gospel, so that people will see the truth and that more people will have that hope and that confidence in the Lord.
Speaker AAnd so I want you to think about that here this evening.
Speaker AAm I, as a believer who believes that I have everlasting life, Am I living confidently?
Speaker AAm I living with that eternal focus enough to say, no matter what happens around me, God is victorious?
Speaker ANo matter what happens around me, God's going to get the glory?
Speaker AAnd that's uncomfortable because we like things our way.
Speaker AI don't like change.
Speaker AI like things the way that they are, and I don't want that to change.
Speaker AI mean, it was a huge thing for us to move to Delaware.
Speaker AThat was huge.
Speaker ALike, I.
Speaker AThat is not a natural thing that I would want to do.
Speaker AI never want to move from Delaware.
Speaker AI told someone recently, someone's like, don't you want to move back to Florida?
Speaker AI said, no, because you see how much is in my house.
Speaker AI'd have to pack that all up.
Speaker AI don't want to move for many reasons.
Speaker AOne of them is just that's an inconvenience.
Speaker AI'm uncomfortable with change.
Speaker AAnd so when changes happen around us, we can act a bunch of different ways.
Speaker AWe can, you know, there's.
Speaker AThere's fight, there's flight, there's being petrified and just not moving at all.
Speaker ABut what do we do?
Speaker AWe.
Speaker AWe don't allow the outward stimuli of the world and of our circumstance, of our workplace, of our home, to dictate what's happening on the inside with the confidence that we have in God.
Speaker AAnd so going back to First John, Chapter 5, he very clearly says, here, I've written these things so that you can have confidence to be with faith, to stand in the truth.
Speaker AYou ever looked at someone and said, I don't know how they have that type of hope right now.
Speaker AI don't know how they have that type of demeanor in the midst of this difficulty.
Speaker AWell, if they're trusting in Jesus Christ as their Savior, we know how they can do that.
Speaker AGod is giving them grace, grace that we might not understand in that moment because we're not going through it.
Speaker AIt's a unique grace to them in that moment.
Speaker AAnd so when we see a situation of someone Going through such a hard trial and, and then they keep their eyes on Christ.
Speaker AThat's a beautiful thing.
Speaker AAnd that's an example of how God's peace and confidence can rest upon someone's life.
Speaker AAnd so that's what John is talking about here.
Speaker AJohn says there is a full assurance in Jesus.
Speaker ANot full assurance in myself, not full assurance in, in a church, not even a full assurance in.
Speaker ALike, for example, I want you to trust me as, as your, as a pastor, as a man of God.
Speaker AI want you to trust me.
Speaker AI want my children to trust me.
Speaker AI want my wife to trust me.
Speaker AAnd I'm going to do everything I possibly can to prove that.
Speaker ABut realize, at the end of the day, a man is a man and every man is flawed in every way.
Speaker AAnd so what we need to see is this.
Speaker AWhen we keep our eyes on a person outside of Jesus Christ, or we keep our eyes on a program, or we keep our eyes on a movement, or we keep our eyes on anything outside of Jesus, eventually that will fail us.
Speaker ANow, we hope that someone that we love doesn't fail us, but the reality is, is that there is the probability that someone will fail us.
Speaker AAnd I've seen a lot of people, maybe you have as well, that have walked away from church or walked away from the faith because another human, another individual, either fell into sin or wronged them.
Speaker AAnd then there's that struggle of identifying that sin of that person and, and then equating that to God.
Speaker ABut what we have to understand is that that person, even though they sinned against me, and that's wrong.
Speaker AAnd there's a whole other study that we could deal with when it comes to forgiveness and restoration and justice and all of that.
Speaker ABut at the end of the day, I cannot look at someone else's flaws and then attribute that to God because God's word says that he is perfect, that he keeps his word, and he always does.
Speaker ASo these things have I written unto you that believe on the name of the Son of God that you may know that you have eternal life and that ye may believe on the name of the Son of God.
Speaker AYou might say what?
Speaker AThat kind of seems redundant.
Speaker AWhat is he saying here?
Speaker AWell, he says, we start our faith, we start our sanctification path through believing on the name of the Son of God.
Speaker AAnd how do we continue in on that?
Speaker AWe continue with believing on the name of the Son of God.
Speaker AWe must go back to that.
Speaker AWe have to go back to the well that never runs dry.
Speaker AAnd so for a Christian, it's not just I believed in Jesus 20 years ago and now I'm hoping everything's okay.
Speaker AIt's.
Speaker AI believe in Jesus not only 20 years ago, but today, this very moment, I'm believing in Jesus to keep my salvation, to keep me secure, to hold me in his hand, to protect me from the evil one.
Speaker AAnd the truth is, is that there's going to be times in our life where God does allow temptations to come.
Speaker AGod's going to allow struggles to come.
Speaker AGod's going to allow us to deal with certain things.
Speaker AAnd many times what we do is we think that that's God judging us or God upset with us, but really, at the end of the day, it's a test in many ways.
Speaker AIt's a test to see if we're faithful.
Speaker AI see this with my own children.
Speaker AI want to protect my children.
Speaker AI never want to see my child hurt.
Speaker ABut I also don't have them walk around in a bubble wrap suit.
Speaker AOkay?
Speaker ASome of you say, well, we did that with our kids.
Speaker AOkay, maybe that's a smart thing.
Speaker ABut the reality is, is I want my children to be able to experience things.
Speaker AAnd through their growth, there might be some pain, there might be some struggles.
Speaker ASo I can't protect my children from all pain and struggles, but I still want what's best for them.
Speaker AAnd so God can protect us from struggles.
Speaker AI mean, God is completely capable of never allowing us to go through a hardship.
Speaker ABut the Bible says very clearly that it's through those difficulties that brings confidence in him, brings assurance in him, bring, brings growth.
Speaker AAnd so he knows that we learn through those struggles.
Speaker AAnd so it could be this that God would say, you know what, I saved you.
Speaker ANow I'm just going to leave you alone, figure it out, and one day you're going to come back with me.
Speaker ABut no, look what the next verse says.
Speaker AIt says, and this is the confidence that we have in Him.
Speaker ASo he's not just saying have blind confidence.
Speaker AHe says, this is the confidence that we have in him, that if we ask anything according to his will, he heareth us.
Speaker ASo there's so much that we could say with this verse, but it's saying that when we're walking in fellowship with God, we have that personal relationship with him and we can ask him anything.
Speaker AWe can come to him for anything.
Speaker ANow I used to read this and I used to think that I can ask him anything and he'll give me every answer that I want in the affirmative.
Speaker ABut that's not what it says here.
Speaker AIt says if we if we are walking with him and if we have confidence in him and if we believe in him, we have the access to ask anything we want.
Speaker AWe, we, we, we have that throne room of grace that we're able to enter because of the blood of Jesus Christ.
Speaker AWe had more time.
Speaker AI would take you to Hebrews chapter four, and it speaks of we can come in boldly into the throne of grace.
Speaker AThat just means confidently, meaning that we can have access to God.
Speaker AAnd it says that we can ask him for help in time of need, to have mercy and grace in time of need.
Speaker AThat's that beauty of God being Abba Father and we being his children and we can come to Him.
Speaker AIt doesn't mean that God's going to say yes to us every time we ask him something that we want.
Speaker AYou know, God, I want this day to be selfishly.
Speaker AI could ask him for, you know, I want, I want a million dollars today.
Speaker AWell, I might have a God's will for me today to have a million dollars, but I could come to him and ask him that.
Speaker AI have the access to ask Him.
Speaker AThe Bible talks all about the selfishness, selfish, sinful prayers.
Speaker ABut we go back here and he says, okay.
Speaker AThen he says verse 16.
Speaker AIf any man sees, or, excuse me, verse 15.
Speaker AAnd if we know that he hear us, so we have, we're confident that he hears us.
Speaker AWe have to believe that he hears us.
Speaker AWhatsoever we ask, we know that we have the petitions that we desire of Him.
Speaker ANow you might say, well, Pastor Josh, I thought you said that we, we can get, we, we don't get everything that we want.
Speaker AWell, we see that other passages of Scripture where he speaks to this idea that if we ask in accordance to his will, right?
Speaker ASo, so there's a specific way that we are supposed to pray.
Speaker AAnd, and I think that that's sometimes one of the things that we forget about is we pray for our, our will.
Speaker AAnd instead of praying for our will, the Bible says, let's pray for his will.
Speaker AAnd the greatest example of that I, I believe is when Jesus is in the garden and he's praying to the Father and he's asking the Father for, you know, he says, let, if any, if this be possible, let this cup pass, but then nevertheless, thy will be done.
Speaker AAnd so in that case, if we were thinking from our terms, right, if.
Speaker ADid Jesus have access to the Father, we, we know, course he did.
Speaker AAnd, and that's a whole other study for another day when we talk about the Trinity.
Speaker ABut the reality is, is in that moment Jesus asked for that cup to pass.
Speaker AGod's will was that it did not pass and that he would drink of that cup.
Speaker AAnd so, so technically God did not.
Speaker AGod the Father did not respond to Jesus in the way that he asked, but Jesus said, nevertheless, thy will be done.
Speaker AAnd so I'm not saying that that's something that we tag on to the end of our prayers.
Speaker AWell, nevertheless, I will be done.
Speaker ABut what I am saying is that as we become more and more aligned with God in our lives, we become more in line with our desires for what he wants for our life.
Speaker AAnd so if God tells me no, it actually might be the best result I've ever had.
Speaker AI don't understand that sometimes.
Speaker AI mean, there have been times in my life where I've prayed for God to heal people and he has not healed them.
Speaker AWhat, what does that mean?
Speaker ADoes that mean that I didn't pray hard enough?
Speaker AI don't think so.
Speaker AI think that God has different plans and God's plans are above my plans.
Speaker AAnd I don't know the answer to that.
Speaker AAnd who am I to ever question God's goodness and his character?
Speaker ABut we go to that verse and he says, if we know that he hears us, and we do know that he hears us, whatsoever we ask, we know that we have the petitions that we desired of Him.
Speaker AI think that there's another passage of scripture that we could equate to this.
Speaker AIn John 15, again, obviously the same human author and same spiritual guide, obviously through the inspiration of the Holy Spirit, John 15:7 says, if ye abide in me and my words abide in you, ye shall ask what ye will and it shall be done unto you.
Speaker ABut the caveat to that is that we have to be abiding in him and abiding in his words.
Speaker AWe can't be living selfish flesh filled lives and just expect God to give us everything that we want.
Speaker ABut when we're walking with God and we're desiring his will and, and we pray in his will, he will answer our request.
Speaker AHe, he will answer those questions and those desires that we have in our life when we're asking God's will.
Speaker ANow the other side of this coin would be that God, God doesn't want to be using us separate from Him.
Speaker AHe wants to be partnering with us.
Speaker AAnd the verse that I think we could go to on that is second Corinthians, chapter six, verse one, says, we then as workers together with him, beseech you that you receive not the grace of God in vain, meaning God wants to work alongside of us and God.
Speaker AGod could work without us.
Speaker AThe reality is, is that God doesn't need us.
Speaker AThe reality is, is that God could do all of his work without us.
Speaker ABut God wants to partner with us.
Speaker AAnd that sounds weird, and that's not a word that we use quite frequently, partner with God.
Speaker ABut what it is is that God wants to use us.
Speaker AHe doesn't have to use us, but he wants to.
Speaker AAnd so what we do is as, as believers is say, lord, how can I be used by you?
Speaker AWhat's your will in this situation?
Speaker AAnd obviously, you know, the passage of scripture that speaks to the idea that as God will give us the desires of our heart.
Speaker AAnd that's a passage of scripture that gets skewed so often and misused when it comes to prosperity.
Speaker APreachers that say, you know, if you just want a Ferrari and you want it enough, just keep going after it.
Speaker AOkay, I'm not saying that that's what it says, but my personal belief on that is that God changes our desires to the things that he wants for our life.
Speaker ASo if my desires are aligned with his desires, my, My desires are always going to be filled because God's will is going to be done.
Speaker AAnd so when we see this passage of scripture, we, we have to wrap our minds around a bigger picture.
Speaker AAnd the bigger picture is, is that we are not the center of the universe.
Speaker AGod is the focus.
Speaker AAnd so when we ask according to God's will, when we pray.
Speaker AAnd by the way, he's.
Speaker AI believe he's specifically talking about if you go to John 15, 7, resting in his Word, resting in his will.
Speaker AI believe that it's claiming the promises of God.
Speaker AI believe we should pray the promises of God in accordance to His Word.
Speaker AWhat has God clearly stated in His Word?
Speaker AThat he's never going to leave us nor forsake us.
Speaker ASo we pray for God's presence.
Speaker AWe believe.
Speaker AWe.
Speaker AWe pray that God will keep his word.
Speaker AWhen he says that He's Jehovah Jireh, the one who provides.
Speaker AWe claim His Word.
Speaker AWhen it gets to a place in our life where we're feeling doubts in our mind.
Speaker ARemember the context.
Speaker AIt's the confidence of our salvation.
Speaker AWe go back to the confidence of God being the one who holds us fast and not we ourselves holding ourselves fast.
Speaker AAnd so I, I believe the context of this passage is this.
Speaker AWhen we ask God according to his will, when we pray the promises of God that we find in Scripture, we can have confidence and we can pray in faith like so.
Speaker AWhat it means is that we have to know the word of God.
Speaker AWe have to know what God has promised us.
Speaker ABecause we can't claim the promises of God unless we know the promises of God.
Speaker AAnd so I think that there's an emphasis upon knowing the word of God, not just to have head knowledge, but to hide his word in our hearts that we won't sin against Him.
Speaker AThy word is a lamp unto my feet and a light unto my path.
Speaker ASo practically speaking, okay, and I'll.
Speaker AI'll end it right here.
Speaker ABut practically speaking, what does this look like?
Speaker ALike I'm sitting here.
Speaker AOkay.
Speaker AAnd circumstance.
Speaker AA pops up, and that makes me nervous and I'm doubting something about God.
Speaker AWhat do I do?
Speaker AWell, pray.
Speaker ABible says in James, chapter one, ask God for wisdom and he'll give it to us liberally.
Speaker AHe will not hold it against us.
Speaker ABut pray what?
Speaker AWell, pray.
Speaker ALord, help me.
Speaker AHelp me get out of this.
Speaker AThat's how I.
Speaker AThat's how I used to pray all the time.
Speaker ALord, help me get out of the situation.
Speaker ALike I wanted to squirm out of every situation.
Speaker ABut now it's this.
Speaker AI believe, biblically speaking, we should claim a passage of scripture that God has promised in His Word and hide those words in our heart so that we're able to go back to that well that never runs dry in His Word, that it can be a lamp unto our feet and a light into our path.
Speaker AI believe it's God's Word that gives us that confidence.
Speaker AThe presence of God is there.
Speaker ABut how do we know about the presence of God without the word of God?
Speaker AHow do we know about the love of God?
Speaker AEven though the love of God is there, when you're a believer, the love of God is there.
Speaker ABut how can we grow in our love for God?
Speaker AHow can we know more about the love of God through His Word?
Speaker AHow can we know more about our future as believers through His Word?
Speaker AAnd so I think that what we're seeing here in this passage of scripture is, yes, we, we have confidence.
Speaker ABut go back to verse 13.
Speaker AThese things have I written unto you.
Speaker ASo he says, I've.
Speaker AI've written you these things so that you can go back and reference these passages of scripture.
Speaker AAnd so one commentator put it this way.
Speaker AThe most powerful prayers in the Bible are always prayers which understand the will of God and ask him to perform it.
Speaker AWe may be annoyed when one of our children says, daddy, this is what you promised.
Speaker ANow please do it, man.
Speaker AMy son gets me on that.
Speaker AMy.
Speaker AMy oldest son gets Me on that all the time.
Speaker AHe's, dad, you said we were gonna go buy the ice cream shop after this, and I.
Speaker AMan, I thought he forgot.
Speaker AHe keeps me to my word, okay?
Speaker AMicah keeps me to my word, and he will never.
Speaker AHe will not let me get away with it, okay?
Speaker AAnd that frustrates me to no end because I'm like, man, he's.
Speaker AI keep my word, but.
Speaker ABut I think on, like.
Speaker AAnd that's my flesh.
Speaker AThat's my annoyance as a.
Speaker AAs a human.
Speaker AGod doesn't get annoyed with us when we say, keep your word, dad.
Speaker AHe.
Speaker AThat brings him joy because we're trusting in Him.
Speaker ASo.
Speaker ASo when we're going through that problem and we go, lord, you said you'd be with me here.
Speaker AThat's not.
Speaker AI don't think that's disrespect if it's not with a different disrespectful spirit if you're believing in what he has said.
Speaker AI believe in faith.
Speaker AGod is joyful.
Speaker AAnd it shows that we're aligned with him, and it shows our dependence in him that we take His Word seriously.
Speaker AAnd so I don't think it's.
Speaker AIt's wrong to ask God for something that he hasn't specifically promised in Scripture.
Speaker AI don't think that's sinful.
Speaker ABut I do believe that we need to realize the specific promises of God in context to the different things that we're dealing with in our life.
Speaker ABecause God speaks to many things that most people, if they would just go to His Word, would get the answers.
Speaker AThe problem is, is that we might even know what God's Word says, but we aren't necessarily willing to believe it and to heed it and to obey it and to apply it to our lives.
Speaker AAnd so we'll stop there.
Speaker AWe'll stop in verse number 15.
Speaker ABecause actually, it starts with this idea that if we have confidence in God, we will pray.
Speaker ABut secondly, if we have confidence in God, we're going to pray for our failing and struggling brothers and sisters in the fellowship.
Speaker ABecause remember, the theme of First John is fellowship with God, fellowship with others.
Speaker AIt's always mirrored, okay?
Speaker AMy love for God is mirrored and displayed through my love to others.
Speaker ASo if I trust God and pray to God for my needs, if I'm doing that properly and healthily, my heart will then turn to praying for my fellow believers that are struggling.
Speaker AAnd we're going to talk more about that next time when we come back, when we talk about that dynamic between our prayer life and our love for others.
Speaker ABecause it's very hard to be mad at somebody and hate somebody if you're praying for them.
Speaker AI'm going to tell you, that's a.
Speaker AThat's a blessing for me.
Speaker ALike, if I'm struggling loving somebody, I just start praying for them.
Speaker AAnd my heart turns over time.
Speaker AAnd that's not my flesh.
Speaker AMy flesh wants to get even.
Speaker ABut the Spirit never says that.
Speaker AThe Spirit says, love, joy, peace.
Speaker AIt was that forgiveness, tender heart of forgiving one another.
Speaker AAnd so we'll talk more about that next week.
Speaker ABut I think the answer to all of our.
Speaker AI know the answer to all of our problems is found in Jesus Christ.
Speaker AAnd the way that we find the truth of Jesus Christ.
Speaker AThe Bible says in Romans 10:17, faith cometh by hearing and hearing by the Word of God.
Speaker ASo see it this way.
Speaker AWe have to overcome the struggles of this world with faith in God.
Speaker AAnd faith in God is seen through knowing him, and knowing him is knowing him through His Word and knowing him through the Spirit and knowing him through his guidance.
Speaker ABut you cannot say, well, I'm walking with God, but I'm not walking in His Word.
Speaker AYou cannot say, I'm growing in the Lord, but I'm not growing in His Word.
Speaker AThis is.
Speaker AThey're.
Speaker AThey're linked together.
Speaker AThey're linked together.
Speaker AThe Bible says all scripture is given by inspiration of God and is profitable for doctrine, for proof, for correction, and for instruction in righteousness.
Speaker AAnd so I think that we need to understand the connection between our relationship with God and our prayer lives and the word of God.
Speaker AThey all need to be tied together and synchronized.
Speaker AAnd we walk together with him on that.
Speaker ASo God has told us in His Word that we can know that we have everlasting life.
Speaker AIf that's something that you're doubting or you're struggling with, maybe you got saved a long time ago, but you're struggling with this idea of like, does God still love me?
Speaker AIs God still with me?
Speaker ADid.
Speaker ADid he truly save me?
Speaker ADid he let go of me?
Speaker AIs this world too far gone?
Speaker AIs God going to lose?
Speaker AIs.
Speaker AIs.
Speaker AIs evil going to win?
Speaker AThese are all questions that are real questions for us as human beings.
Speaker ABut these things God has given us so that we can know that we have everlasting life.
Speaker AThose that believe on the name of the Son of God.
Speaker AAnd so I trust that this evening, if that's something that you're dealing with, that you're wrestling with or that someone that you know is wrestling with, go to Scripture.
Speaker AOr if you don't know the Scripture, go to someone who you believe does know the scripture.
Speaker AOkay.
Speaker ABecause the reality is, is that I could be sitting here and I could say, lord, I know that you probably say something to me, lead me to it, but there are people that are set up in our lives that can get us a little faster to that passage of scripture.
Speaker AIt's okay.
Speaker AIt's okay to do that.
Speaker ABecause actually the Bible doesn't ever say.
Speaker AWhere does the Bible say to go?
Speaker AIt doesn't say to go to Google or nowadays chat, GBT or whatever.
Speaker AThe AI.
Speaker AYou know, everyone's doing that.
Speaker AThe millennials and younger.
Speaker AThat's all they can do is think about, you know, AI.
Speaker ABut.
Speaker AAnd I'm not saying all is bad, but I'm just saying you gotta be careful.
Speaker ABut that's not where Scripture tells us to go.
Speaker AScripture tells us to go to him for the first.
Speaker AThe first response is to go to the Lord and then his word.
Speaker AAnd then the Bible does say in a, there's wisdom in a multitude of counsel, right?
Speaker ATo go to someone that we trust and then that that's what God has ordained.
Speaker ASo I encourage you to do that if that's something that you're going through.
Speaker AThank you again for listening to the Middletown Baptist Church podcast.
Speaker AI hope that this sermon has been a blessing for you.
Speaker AYou.
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Speaker AThank you so much.
Speaker AGod bless.
Speaker AHave a wonderful day.